Hi, I am in the same place you are, but I think I already am pregnant. My bf wants me to have a baby, and also says the same mess all other guys tell their girls. But I am so unsure of what to do too. But I guess the place to start is how old are you both and how long have you bee tgether? Do what feels right and if that is to make a child together dont let any body stop you. Good luck

Hey if you are in high school and you can help it then wait!!! Finish school!! Tell him if he really loves you then he will support and understand your decision

If he loves you he will wait. And if not having a baby isn't the only choice - lots of people have children they have to put up for adoption. But make sure you have your education first! And if he wants to have ababy then tell him you want to be married b-cuz then he can't just up and go and if he does theres child support. Make sure you love each other theres no going back once you've got urself pregnant! Good luck - o and u didnt seem to sure that you really really loved him so i'd double check that

Hey girl. Before we go into the whole "if he loves me, he wont leave" kinda discussion. Answer this: what do you want?!

Simply as that, if you want to have a baby, then go ahead and be aware of the potential break up if he is not ready.

If you dont want a baby, then tell him so. Talk to him. And I mean communicate with him, ask him why he wants a baby now? And discuss what happens after the baby is born? Like discuss ur future with him. See if he actually has any plan at all or he is just dreaming.

Yea if he loves u, he wont leave, but how do we really know?!

I think the most important thing is what you want not what he wants.

And do not have that thought which "i have to have his baby coz I dont want him to leave me if I dont" that's the worst thought u could have! Dont have his baby to try to keep him, it never works