Ok here is the problem.

All my life I have been overshadowed by people. I was a good student in high school, but I was no virginia (my sister). I was a good quarterback, but I was no bob (my brother). This followed me all the way to college at virginia tech. My freshman year, I was a cadet. I was a good one, but no guy (my father). My sophomore year I walked on to the football team. Of course, this was the michael vick era, so I never played. However, after he left, I started most of my senior year. I was good, but no michael. I know it isn't much to say that I was overshadowed by michael vick because just about everyone who plays quarterback. However, now I am being overshadowed in my dating life. The girl that I am dating keep saying that I am a good guy. She says that the guy she used to date always did........(fill in the blank with a nice thing). I am tired of being overshadowed by everyone and cannot find anything that is my own. What can I do to get her to stop thinking of me as second best?