Hi I Really Need Help! Plzzzz Post Bak Sum1 Posted: 01-07-06 21:00pm
Hi today I had sex 4 the first time and he
didn't wear protection! I felt a pain in
my lower abdomen after but im not sure if
my hymen (cherrie) broke as there was no
blood..It was painful tho! It lasted
about 5-10 minutes and I just wondered if
anyone knew the chances of me been
pregnant??? N should I buy a pregnancy
test?? I would like 2 be pregnant but I
am onli 13 years old. Plzzzz sum1 help!
X :cry:
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Tamadrummer
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Oct 2004 Posts: 710 Location: Zephyrhills,Fl
Posted: 01-07-06 21:12pm
There is always a chance that you can be
prego but for your own sake, do not become
prego yet. I am 33 and my wife is 30 and
it is taking 100% of our lives and
finances to raise this baby. He is not a
doll baby that stops crying when we put
him down, he cries almost the entire time
he is up and it is very difficult to do
anything or go anywhere.
You would be well advised to not do it!
Stay in school so you can learn how to
type out whole words and make complete
sentences.
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~*~Jillian~*~
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
Posted: 01-07-06 23:18pm
Well yeah you could be pregnant....Again I
ask why at 13 are you having unprotected
sex?...You dont want to be pregnant at
your age ...Im 18 and its hard enough for
me ...School,money, job,
baby....Sleep....You need to think about
things ...Heck you dont even have a car
..How would you take your baby to the
doctor...And how will you have money for
the many things that are needed for a
baby....You need to have fun while you are
young and stop worrying about sex, boy,
and babys....
You do need to take a hpt...But you will
have to wait till 4-5 days before your
next period...And tell your
parents...!!!
Advice----dont have unprotected sex
again...And if you are going to continue
having sex be mature and tell your parents
..So they can get you on birth
control...B/c I believe that if you cant
tell your parents then truthfully you
arent mature enough to be having sex...But
best of luck!
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Lilypad
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 1043 Location: Ohio, USA
Posted: 01-08-06 08:40am
Statistically you would have about a 25%
chance of getting pregnant. However you
really need to think about this. If you
are only 13 think of how much a baby would
change your life right now! And the odds
of you and your boyfriend sticking
together at this young of an age are very
slim. I do hope that you get on some
birth control if you keep having sex as
well as start using condoms. Stds are
more common than you think and many of
them can haunt you for the rest of your
life. Please be careful and be
responsable.
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AlliE_18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2005 Posts: 2129 Location: uk
Posted: 01-08-06 14:39pm
You cant raise a baby at 13, for one you
still have to go to school all day for
another 2/3 years at least. I doubt
anyone else wants to spend their days
looking after him/her for you. You won't
have much money for anything, and your
baby will likely grow up thinking and
calling your parents mum n dad not you.
Just wait a while then have as many babies
as you like. Get your boyfriend to buy a
pack of condoms asap.
