We are sooo the same! I've been researching...
Narrow hips and derriere
Good: Wraps, dropped waist, sarong, chemise, set-in waist, full skirts, tents, overblouse, tunics, A-line, princess, stirrups pants and pants with pleats.
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You're top-heavy if:
You have a wide build, little or no hips, and you're slender and athletic.
Swimwear that suits you
Glamorous, sophisticated cuts will break up the slightly masculine aspect of your figure. Don't skimp on the feminine detailing: ties, prints, floral details and the like.
All shapes suit your body, but a girly bikini top will enhance your top half and small bottoms will emphasise a pert bum. Go for whatever you fancy, as long as it's feminine enough!
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I just keep wearing baggy pants and A-line skirts.
I don't wear hanging tops coz they make my top look heavy. My shoulders are too broad so I try to put less emphasis on them. I hide my hips by wearing loose pants and skirts and I avoid tight dresses, long tops and tight pants/skirts.
Sigh, why can't I just have a proportionate body?
Good luck sis...