:cry: I dont know wat to do. Im excited
and scared. I knoe if I am pregnant...
Andrews gonna leave me, I just feel it,
he's gonna ask me to have an abortion and
when I tell him not hell ask about
adoption ill say no again and he'll freak.
He'll leave me for sure and I cant do
this alone! :cry:
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kilonano
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2006 Posts: 6
=\. Posted: 01-07-06 12:01pm
I'm sorry if i'm being mean...But if you
were willing to have sex with him, I would
have thought you'd trust him with the
responsbility. Relationships require
responsibility. I understand... I dont
know if i'm much help... But i'd talk to
him about it... Its not that ez for a guy
to just ...Leave you when you need him the
most....
Take cares,
all the best =)
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jewelskye
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 172 Location: Los Angeles
Posted: 01-07-06 18:20pm
Sweetie, if you have sex, you need to know
that if something happens, the guy will be
there for you. It's your responsibility
to make sure of that before you have sex.
You need to do what's best for you and if
you're pregnant, your child. If he
doesn't except the fact that you want to
keep this baby, then you do it without
him----women do it all the time!
Please have a test taken.... Best of
luck!
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jewelskye
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 172 Location: Los Angeles
Posted: 01-07-06 20:36pm
Added thought - if you had sex knowing
that he wouldn't take responsibility (not
quite the best thing to do), then you had
to have been prepared to deal with a
pregnanct yourself. But, like michelle
said, take a test. You'll feel better,
and it's the best thing for you and the
baby.
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~*~Jillian~*~
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
Posted: 01-07-06 20:52pm
...I know you are scared ...Its only
normal ...Maybe you are all wrong about
how he will react...He might take it well
just wait till the right time and dont
throw it all at him at once....But you
need to have protected sex with him from
now on ...Because if you have to be scared
every time you guys have sex that he will
leave you if your pregnant ...Then its not
worth it ....Just be careful and good
luck!
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supercow
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jan 2006 Posts: 4
Posted: 01-08-06 13:01pm
If he isnt supportive, you dont have to
stay with him. Everyone worries that the
baby wont have a father. Im sure you will
find a nice, supportive person to father
your child later on. Its better to have a
step father than an loser for a father.
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AlliE_18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2005 Posts: 2129 Location: uk
Posted: 01-08-06 15:00pm
My boyfriend left me because I wont give
up my baby, but we might not still be
together in a couple of years like with
yours. Then I will be wishing I kept it.
The baby is more important than your
boyfriend so are you. Do what's best for
yourself and the baby, not what he wants.
Don't let him blackmail you either...
