I'm sorry if i'm being mean...But if you were willing to have sex with him, I would have thought you'd trust him with the responsbility. Relationships require responsibility. I understand... I dont know if i'm much help... But i'd talk to him about it... Its not that ez for a guy to just ...Leave you when you need him the most....

Take cares,
all the best =)

Sweetie, if you have sex, you need to know that if something happens, the guy will be there for you. It's your responsibility to make sure of that before you have sex.

You need to do what's best for you and if you're pregnant, your child. If he doesn't except the fact that you want to keep this baby, then you do it without him----women do it all the time!

Please have a test taken.... Best of luck!

Added thought - if you had sex knowing that he wouldn't take responsibility (not quite the best thing to do), then you had to have been prepared to deal with a pregnanct yourself. But, like michelle said, take a test. You'll feel better, and it's the best thing for you and the baby.

...I know you are scared ...Its only normal ...Maybe you are all wrong about how he will react...He might take it well just wait till the right time and dont throw it all at him at once....But you need to have protected sex with him from now on ...Because if you have to be scared every time you guys have sex that he will leave you if your pregnant ...Then its not worth it ....Just be careful and good luck!

If he isnt supportive, you dont have to stay with him. Everyone worries that the baby wont have a father. Im sure you will find a nice, supportive person to father your child later on. Its better to have a step father than an loser for a father.

My boyfriend left me because I wont give up my baby, but we might not still be together in a couple of years like with yours. Then I will be wishing I kept it. The baby is more important than your boyfriend so are you. Do what's best for yourself and the baby, not what he wants. Don't let him blackmail you either...