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Q: Sad And Newly Single.

asked by: heymiss on January 6th, 2006

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The other day my boyfriend broke up with me. It hurt because he sent so many mixed signals; like at midnight on new years day he called me to wish me a happy new year and that he loved me. When he dumped me he told me it was because of stuff at home, but I didn't believe him.

Through out the relationship he always went on about my pervious. I put up with it for a while but one night I broke into tears and told him how I was scared about how he might start treating me the same way my ex did. And guess what? After telling him that he did started treating me badly.

I think the real reason he dumped me was because he wanted out of the relationship and has started talking to an old girlfriend he re-gained feelings for.

I feel like I get dumped for better girls and that i'm never good enough.

What can I do?

Replies(3)

PuffPuff

replied on January 6th, 2006

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Are you retarded?

mindoculus

replied on January 11th, 2006

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Re: Sad And Newly Single.

heymiss wrote:

the other day my boyfriend broke up with me. It hurt because he sent so many mixed signals; like at midnight on new years day he called me to wish me a happy new year and that he loved me. When he dumped me he told me it was because of stuff at home, but I didn't believe him.

Through out the relationship he always went on about my pervious. I put up with it for a while but one night I broke into tears and told him how I was scared about how he might start treating me the same way my ex did. And guess what? After telling him that he did started treating me badly.

I think the real reason he dumped me was because he wanted out of the relationship and has started talking to an old girlfriend he re-gained feelings for.

I feel like I get dumped for better girls and that i'm never good enough.

What can I do?

your ex had serious issues himself which, for whatever reason, you chose
to look past and assume the blame for.

You need to straighten your thinking out. You need to look deeper, develop certain ironclad principles about yourself and about how you should expect others to treat you, and always hold to them.

You are not a failure because this loser moved on. He did you the favor.
You were throwing heavy issues at him that not surprisingly he could not handle. But, again, what you need to worry about are the guidelines and rules that you need to create that will help you find your way through the
next challange.

Sometimes the mistakes you make wont just walk away.

ironmantaylors

replied on January 11th, 2006

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puffpuff wrote:

are you retarded?

what kind of response is this?............

Count your blessings young lady, this bf is inmature and you deserve better.............It is not the women he or others are dating that are better than you..........Probably that they have not figured out he is a loser yet, and he was insecure that you were on to him, so he dropped the bomb to inflate his ego. He can tell everyone he dumped you, like he was to good for you...............No worries you will find someone better than he someday..........True.

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