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Q: What's It Like...?

asked by: TysonH on January 6th, 2006

Experienced User

Ok a question for all you guys .. For the men on this forum that have had sex with a virgin, is it anydifferent than having sex to a woman who is not a virgin? Reason asking, my girlfriend has had sex before, and have read about breaking the tissue named as the hymen which can either be broken from riding a horse, a bike, or even using a tampon. Also, I know women vary from how much to how little they bleed if at all. So, just curious, what it feels like when having sex with virgin, since I plan to be with my girlfriend for a very loong time.. Thanks all

Replies(7)

bluedoriangrey

replied on January 7th, 2006

New User

My wife was a virgin. We had sex before marriage. We had sex at 19. Yes, I broke her hymen. Yes, there was some blood. Don't know if it felt any different becuase she was a little tense anyway to start with.

TysonH

replied on January 7th, 2006

Experienced User

Thanks for replying blue.. See, I have read all about the blood and stuff and how tense the muscles may be, but I was just wondering, when the male genitalia hits the hymen, if it actually can feel it or nething. Were u a virgin when u met ur wife!?
Some women still bleed after having sex if they wait like a year cuz that musce wasn't used..Just thought that was interesting... Thanks again

cmilah

replied on January 8th, 2006

New User

My girlfriend and I were both virgins when we first had sex...She didn't have her hymen. She was not extremely tight that I couldn't get inside of her either...Her vagina was plenty wet :)

s_kalb

replied on January 8th, 2006

Experienced User

Lol cmilah you look happy.

I did not feel a single thing with my (ex-)virgin (not ex-)girlfriend. I just remember it was fairly difficult to insert...
At first time, take it slowly man. In fact, do never speed up until the lady asked you to.

TysonH

replied on January 9th, 2006

Experienced User

Ok, I have already had sex only with my girlfriend. However, my g/f has had sex with other guys, so I know the proper speed. I was just wondering, what I was missing out on, since I hadn't been able to "break the hymen" just curious if there is a certain feel to it when the man goes through...Ne other comments?

TysonH

replied on January 9th, 2006

Experienced User

Ne other suggestions?

TysonH

replied on January 16th, 2006

Experienced User

Can the male's penis actually feel the hymen as it enters the vagina? Another question of thought..If ne of u are dating a woman or married to a woman who has had sex before you..Does it feel awkward knowing that another man has been down there besides urself!?!? When I begin to think about it, for myself, I does..Only when i'm thinkin bout it..Thanks

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