He Left Me 7 Months Pregnant Posted: 01-06-06 14:45pm
Ok so he told me he isnt in love any more
and its just not there. He still wants
to be in the babies life and wants us to
be really close. Since he told me this
we speak everyday. Im not sure what he
is thinking. He tells me there isnt
someone else and I believe him. He wants
to still come to the classes all the dr
appointments, stay with me for 2 weeks
after the baby is born. I dont
understand!!!! Someone give me some
advice. I didnt see this coming at all I
was so happy, we never fought, he was
still sooo loving, still is!!!
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amyrenee
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2006 Posts: 10 Location: jacksonville,florida
Posted: 01-06-06 15:55pm
It sounds like me and you are in the same
situation. I'm 16 weeks pregnant and me
and my boyfriend broke-up shortly after I
found out I was pregnant. We were
together almost two years and dated for
about a year before we committed to one
another. He's always been sweet and
caring. He says he still loves me but we
just don't do well as a couple which I
disagreed. He calls everyday and really
seems concerned about me and the baby. I
haven't gotten over it maybe I never will.
But I wanted you to know you aren't
alone. I guess men are just hard to
figure out.
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eed2197
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 5
Posted: 01-06-06 17:55pm
I think that you shouldnt worry about yall
so much and be happy hes still gona be
around as long as he is still part of your
life you & the baby will be happy and
thats the most important. When I found
out about my baby me and my boyfriend of 2
& 1/2 years broke up with me and didnt
see me for three months. He still wont
come to doctors appts. But he wants to be
there when I have the baby. He told me
there was no "us" in the future. Now we
are back together and he wants to move in
to help out so you never know whats gona
happen. When the baby comes your not gona
care about the guy as much as you think.
Everyone has told me when he will see you
and the baby hes gona wanna be with you.
There is not one person that said the dad
did not wanted to be with the mom when the
baby is there so just wait and see and
good luck.
