tigresacanela24
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Why Does Everyone Want An Opinion On Being Pregnant?
Posted: 01-06-06 11:01am
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Don't get me wrong, i'm not angry or
anything. I just genuinely would like
to know why a lot of women come here
asking if everyone "thinks" that they are
pregnant. They are asking for an
opinion which to me is ridiculous. They
obviously researched the symptoms because
some of their listings could have been
read word for word from a pregnancy book.
I can't honestly say that I don't
believe that some of these people didn't
look up the symptoms and then come here
and post them word for word, because I
mean I know quite a few people with
difficult pregnancies and not a one of
them is having all those symptoms at the
same time, and some of the symptoms it's
just a little too early to have... Any
way the point that I was going to make
before my incredulity got the better of me
was this; take a pregnancy test. :?
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pixma
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Joined: 17 Aug 2005 Posts: 1019 Location: NSW Australia
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Posted: 01-06-06 13:42pm
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F*ck your a very bitter person
dalicialynn. You seem to just reek of
hatred and sarcasm!! And i'm not just
talking about this post.
If you dont have anything nice to
say....Don't say it at all!!!!
I'd hate to look at life the way you do.
:x
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designerGAL
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Posted: 01-06-06 14:00pm
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I could not agree with you more
tigresacanela. This forum is meant for
people to come ask questions that they
might not feel comfortable asking a doctor
or their family...And they end up getting
bi***d out anyways.
Last edited by designerGAL on 01-06-06 15:02pm; edited 1 time in total
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rainy1279
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Joined: 02 Jan 2006 Posts: 71 Location: Texas
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Posted: 01-06-06 14:44pm
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I come here asking questions to see if any
one else has had the same thing. You have
your thoughts & I have mine...........
That doesn't mean i'm going to go around
stating that anyone not wanting to read
"am I pregnant" to go some where else..
Its not my place... I just like to hear
everyones imputs on my situation.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 01-06-06 15:28pm
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Wow...I think that the hormone level on
this post is waaay to high.
Tigresacanela24 is completely correct. I
mean come on. People haven't even missed
a period and they're talking about
heartburn?!?! It's just not logical. A
person doesn't get heartburn until your
stomach is forced upward by your uterus.
And we all know that doesn't happen
overnight. It those types of things that
she's talking about.
I know that people are scared to talk to
their doctor or parents about this
situation, but be logical befor you come
ask average people if you're pregnant.
Who am I to say that your pregnant?! I am
not qualified in any way to make that
determination...I also believe that lifing
someones hopes just ot have them slammed
by reality is not fair.
Sarah
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 01-06-06 15:38pm
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These forums a yr ago were soooooooooo
diff. We played games and told jokes and
everyone was extremelly supportive. Some
of us actually started anoter private
forum and we all go there. There is
about 25 of us that have become soooooooo
close we're all like sisters. We chat
online and on the phone, send gifts and
plan on all getting together when we can.
That's how this should be again. I
became a mod to try and get it back to the
way it was but there are certain people on
here that just like to star sh*t.
I made that post "before asking..Am I
pregnant" because none of us are a hpt
and we got sick of being asked...Am I
pregnant?
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
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Posted: 01-06-06 15:42pm
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Amen lilblaze..It's ridiculous how people
think that "looking" preggy qualifies you
to be preggy....
I think that this forum could use a little
growing up...(not everyone) just the
immature ones who are playing russian
roulette with their lives by having
unprotected sex in promiscuious
relationships.
Positivity is lacking in this forum...
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 01-06-06 15:56pm
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| babymajic0506
wrote: | wow...I think that the
hormone level on this post is waaay to
high. Tigresacanela24 is completely
correct. I mean come on. People
haven't even missed a period and they're
talking about heartburn?!?! It's just
not logical. A person doesn't get
heartburn until your stomach is forced
upward by your uterus. And we all know
that doesn't happen overnight. It those
types of things that she's talking about.
I know that people are scared to talk to
their doctor or parents about this
situation, but be logical befor you come
ask average people if you're pregnant.
Who am I to say that your pregnant?! I
am not qualified in any way to make that
determination...I also believe that lifing
someones hopes just ot have them slammed
by reality is not fair.
Sarah |
that's the kind of thing that i'm talking
about. Rainy1279 - i'm not saying for
people to go somewhere else. All i'm
saying is take an hpt. No one can tell
someone over the internet whether or nor
they are pregnant. I'm sorry when I
wanted to find out whether or not I was
pregnant I didn't jump online, I went to
riteaid and bought an ept. I don't want
to hear that there too expensive either
because walmart has one for 3.50 that
works.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 01-06-06 15:59pm
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I've also heard they sell them in dollar
stores in the states too that work.
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designerGAL
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Joined: 02 Dec 2005 Posts: 213 Location: U.S.
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Posted: 01-06-06 16:02pm
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I meant to say I agree with pixma.
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sweet4jay
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Dec 2005 Posts: 81 Location: Arkansas
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Posted: 01-06-06 16:16pm
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What I think is going on is these are
young girls not really sure what pregnancy
symptoms are & are too afraid to ask
their parents or a Dr. So leave them
alone, and let them ask! Surely there is
somebody out there willing to help these
girls. I personally wouldn't get on here
to ask if I could be pg...I would take a
test...But that is just me. Some girls
may be more comfortable asking other
people's opinions, especially if it's
their first pregnancy!
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Kansas
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2005 Posts: 93
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Posted: 01-06-06 16:40pm
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Im sorry if I make anyone angry by posting
this but I just have to get this out. I
was under the impression that these boards
were created to be a form of support for
everyone. This means that people are
free to post whatever they want, even
stupid questions. People have the right
to ask whatever they want for whatever
reason they may have. That is why its
called support. If you dont like what
someone has posted then simply dont read
it or dont respond to it. If you see
something titled "am I pregnant?" dont
read it, if it bothers you so much. Im
sorry to be so blunt but I know that it
probably makes people feel bad when they
post something and get criticized for it.
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designerGAL
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Dec 2005 Posts: 213 Location: U.S.
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teach486
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2005 Posts: 276 Location: US
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Posted: 01-06-06 18:46pm
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I usually try to stay out of any "hot
topics," but these days it seems that
almost every post on here becomes one in
some way, or another. So, based on that,
I decided to put my two cents worth in on
this.
I am relatively new to this board. I have
really enjoyed reading the posts.
However, I will say that the past couple
of months have been more difficult to get
through here. Mainly because the posts
have been flooded with the "am I pregnant"
questions from teens, and the whole debate
on fatfamily.
I do not want to bash the young women
posting here, but I got pregnant as a teen
myself. As soon as I suspected I bought a
hpt. To me that is just common sense. I
didn't run to my computer to a message
board to get strangers' opinions about my
symptoms. Even if a possibly pregnant
teen is too scared to buy a hpt on their
own I would like to think they would at
least have a friend go buy it for them.
Again, it is common sense.
Yes, I can very well avoid reading these
particular posts in question. I normally
do so, but it does get to be a bit of a
pain to have to screen through all of them
that are flooding the screen to find the
more logical ones. It seems by the time
all the "am I pregnant" questions are
posted, all the more logical posts have
been pushed back onto the 2nd and 3rd
pages, often getting overlooked.
Hey mods? Is there any way to move these
"am I pregnant" posts to another forum
where they belong? Such as pregnancy
symptoms (exclusively), or teen pregnancy?
This would help to clean up the general
pregnancy forum.
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diamondsz
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Posted: 01-06-06 19:55pm
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Hey teach,
I completely agree move the "am I
pregnant to another board." hey lil you
think you can work with this one I think
it would be fair to everyone so no one is
left out but then we can actually help
people. Im really tired of seeing am I
pregnant posts when I first came her it
wasnt that bad there was the odd one here
and there but how many times can someone
tell you take a hpt(home pregnancy test)
or blood test it is the only way to find
out.
Wish you gals luck!
Jess
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lil_blaze2004
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KellyBoyle
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Joined: 24 Nov 2005 Posts: 49 Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 01-06-06 21:28pm
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Ever hear of someone who wants to be
pregnant really bad and causes themselves
to have symptoms? My cousin thought she
was pregnant and her breast started to
leak.. I dont see why, people on here,
have to post about other people's
questions on here. It's there questions,
their curious, and they want answers. If
someone has another problem with the
question, ignore it.. I dont see what is
so hard about it? It's about pregnancy,
asking if thier pregnant..Asking about
symptoms..Not im not trying to be a health
forum but come on. This is about
pregnancy, and not about other people's
questions on how "stupid" it is to post
it. See, here is a tip...Dont like the
question...Dont answer it, and ignore it.
There curious, and want to know. A
teenager may be having sex.. She may not
know all the stuff about the pregnancy
symptoms.. Some women have periods when
there pregnant, and anyone can come on
here and ask for advice about it.. They
would like to know if it is possible, so
they come on here and ask for advice..
What are they suppose to do.. "hey mommy,
do you think I can get pregnant from... "
ahh.. No. They want some people's
answers on here. So again...Ignore the
question. Damn.
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BabyGT
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Aug 2005 Posts: 111 Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 01-06-06 21:34pm
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Whoa. Kelly thank you. Lol. I can on
this site asking about if im pregnant, and
the symptoms were a bit to early,and some
girls do get them as soon as a week, sooo
yeah. I thought it was about pregnancy
too, but I guess it's about other people's
questions. Hmm?Dont see why anyone would
like to post about questions like that,
it's stupid. But hey, I ignore it. And
if anyone had a question about thier
symptoms, I would glady tell them, since
to alot of people "it's annoying"
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Mommy980
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Oct 2005 Posts: 31 Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 01-06-06 21:36pm
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Omg here we go again! Everyone just drop
this conversation?! I forgot how old
everyone was in here. It's like high
school! I do agree with babygt though,
just ignroe the questions....... Wow.
Okay, I am done now, but I had to get my
word on this, every week in this forum
gets worse and worse. But im done now,
over with it. Just drop it.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 01-06-06 21:36pm
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There is a "early preganncy signs and
symptoms" forum on this site though too.
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