Is it possible to make a relationship work with someone who is a marijuana smoker if I am not. I just don't do it and my only thing is I don't want it kept or smoked in my home. So he does leave to do it. Like he goes to his friends. He says he has to use it on a daily basis becuase it mellows him out. He says otherwise he is moody. I mean I really don't care it is just that other people say I am asking to lose my kids because he smokes...But like I said I don't have it in my home?