ignore the advice the above have mentioned...........It contains no evidence of any forgiveness or committment. Your wife made a huge mistake!!! She is human, we all do. If any thing it probably made her feelings for you deeper.
You say you can not say you are in love with her anymore, and I say you can find that with help/work.
Ever hear "ain't nothing free" ? Well, a relationship takes work, and understanding. And I caution you that if you leave the one you are in, you may find more work with less reward............Why take a pay cut at you age?
To close...........Time heals all wounds................It happened, do you best to deal with it...........It was yesterday, yesterday is gone.
Good luck with everything.
|hmmm that was a pretty disgusting thing your wife did. Has she felt sorry and cried and asked for your forgiveness?
I say stay with her but go out and have your own fun for once. Find a nice sexy girl and have a blast with her and make sure your wife knows this.
This way she will feel the hurt you felt and you will be even with her.
Stay together for the kids and dont let them know anything. It makes no difference who the kids biological father is. The kid is yours since you raised him/her.
Take care my friend...
this is the most retarded "advice" I have ever heard in my life.
that's simply not possible.