Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 1 Location: East Stroudsburg
Miscarriage Destroyed My Life Posted: 01-04-06 23:25pm
It was christmas eve and I remember saying
to my fiance that the best christmas
present would be to find out I was
pregnant. Okay maybe I should start from
the beginning first. I had two cysts on
both of my ovaries and the doctor said I
can not get pregnant, so automatically I
was upset. But about two years later on
this christmas eve 12/24/05 I took a test
just to be curious and it turned out I was
pregnant, now mind you I was a month or so
along and did not know it. My fiance and
I were estatic my first child, and no one
could tell me nothing to ruin my day. I
was already telling the world the news. I
could not have been happier. Then about a
week later I was spotting, and I thought
oh my first pregnancy
symptom.............Wrong!!! The worst
thing ever a miscarriage. Now I am
writing this on the night I found out I
just came from the doctors yall and I got
right on here to tell someone. I need
help my fiance wants to try again but I am
just too weak from the loss I dont even
think I want to try and get hurt again.
Im still crying from the
news..........Please I don't know what to
do this miscarriage ruined my life, and I
dont think I can move on knowing my baby
is dead inside of me. Someone please help
me!!!! :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 3718 Location: , va
Posted: 01-05-06 08:52am
Hun im sorry for your loss.. But just to
tell you.. Know one can ever determine
your faith in life.. You need to get a
second opinion.. Go seek medical advice
from another doc. A specialist.. I
understand how you feel.. We are all here
if you need to talk
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 01-05-06 08:56am
This doesn't belong in abortion debate so
it's moved here where it's more relevant.
Oh, i'm so sorry! Cry it all out.........
Even if you cry til there's nothing left!
Don't hold anything in..
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Ta-ra
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2005 Posts: 97 Location: uk
Posted: 01-05-06 20:23pm
Aww sorry for oyur loss I kow how u feel .
I miscarried on 15.12.05 so if u wanna
chat im all ears. Msn if need be :)
good luck to you in future and the future
will be brighter :)
*hugs*
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~*~Jillian~*~
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 1759 Location: Tennessee, USA
Posted: 01-05-06 21:38pm
Sorry to hear about your news...Be strong
...And maybe later on it will be time to
try again ...Don't give up!
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Lilypad
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 1043 Location: Ohio, USA
We Are Here For You. Posted: 01-06-06 07:15am
I lost a baby too at five months of
pregnancy. It was my first pregnancy also
and I have no children. Now is your time
to grieve. Its perfectly normal. You
just went through a devastating
experience. You r husband is going
through it too in his own way. Please
let this be a time for you two to support
each other and lean on each other. Dont
worry about trying again right now. You
medically will probably have to wait until
you have two normal periods anyway-thats
what I had to do. You may change your
mind. You just take all the time you
need too. And remember there are alot of
us here who have been thru similar
situations. We are here for you.
