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MessyMay

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Posted: 05-23-08 13:46pm

Before and after its imberrasing mu husband likes it cuz he thinks its a orgasim or like the others said g-spot but its bad sometimes like the blankets sheets and all the way to the matress gets wet i thought about asking my doctor but tooooo imberrased. and my husabd said its like a white color to it i agreed but it still smells pee like!!!!!!
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Posted: 06-02-08 12:41pm

yes before and after
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Posted: 06-04-08 05:15am

i know that this is a forum for women, and i'm a guy, but, my girlfriend is too shy to ask herself, and this pertains to her situation, save for the fact, it's when she masturbates.

my girlfriend has tried on multiple occasions, to pleasure herself through masturbation, fingering in particular.. the problem is, after a few minutes of masturbating, when she starts feeling...um...there's a word for it...the sensation you have before you have an orgasm, she gets the sudden urge to pee, so she says. and that's pretty much the end of any aroused mood she was in.

her and i have tried various things...i've tried being there (on the phone, since we're long-distance currently) and helping keep her aroused while she masturbates, i've tried re-assuring her and keeping her self confidence up (not while she's masturbating, but, in daily life) which she is...she's tried extra fingers, masturbating with toys, all to no avail...the 'urge to pee' hits her no matter what, and if she does, the mood is gone.

sorry to intrude again, i know this is the "women's heath" forums, and i'm a guy, but i'm desprate, and hoping to help fix her problem, because it's affecting her self esteem.....she thinks there's something wrong with her because of this very problem.

any help is much appreciated

~the_fries_guy
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Posted: 06-05-08 21:20pm

I used to have the sensation, but because I get a nervous bladder before sex, like when at the Dr., my boyfriend just said " so what if you do pee. " and thereafter I did imagine what if I actually was? And instead of a nervous bladder it became an erotic bladder. Maybe because there was some submissiveness to it, on my part. Anyway, now some 15 yrs. later, I'm dating a man who officially has a sort of fetish about all this, which I had no point of reference to, except the one I mentioned. So I searched and got onto this site where I too, can identify with many of these womens experiences. I think it's just a sensation, however that emerges during intense sexual arousal and it's cool if you're cool with it. I'm no expert, really, but under the assumption that men want, always, a little of what's off limit. Hence a "pee fixation".
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Posted: 07-29-08 06:53am

Ok. I am 15 years old, and i was masterbating and as i orgasmed, I started spewing liquid. automatically that kind of grossed me out and i stopped. Haha. So, Im pretty shure I'm not urinating because it was clear and didn't smell like uran. But I am afraid of[as i am virgin] when i do loose my virginity it will gross the guy out. Is there a way to hold it in? Or does it have to come out? Because, I noticed it only came squirting when i pushed out.
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Posted: 07-29-08 06:54am

Ok. I am 15 years old, and i was masterbating and as i orgasmed, I started spewing liquid. automatically that kind of grossed me out and i stopped. Haha. So, Im pretty shure I'm not urinating because it was clear and didn't smell like uran. But I am afraid of[as i am virgin] when i do loose my virginity it will gross the guy out. Is there a way to hold it in? Or does it have to come out? Because, I noticed it only came squirting when i pushed out.
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Posted: 07-29-08 16:04pm

i have that same problem 2....wen im havin sex wit this one guy....im real wet n tha bed is really wet on tha area im layin on....n it also smells like pee...i am really wet n its not an orgasm....cuz i know wat that feels like....so if anyone knows wat this is please help!!! thanx!!
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Posted: 07-29-08 17:09pm

MessyMay wrote:
Before and after its imberrasing mu husband likes it cuz he thinks its a orgasim or like the others said g-spot but its bad sometimes like the blankets sheets and all the way to the matress gets wet i thought about asking my doctor but tooooo imberrased. and my husabd said its like a white color to it i agreed but it still smells pee like!!!!!!

Okay don't freak out hun. If you are ejaculating and you have a wee bit of urine in your bladder, it will come out along with the ejaculate...so it might indeed smell like urine. However if you are not coming, then you might just be experiencing YOUR normal orgasm. Like it was said earlier, some women lose all function during orgasm, including bladder function. As long as hubby likes it you are ok lol. But if you are really concerned ask your Dr.
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