Before and after its imberrasing mu
husband likes it cuz he thinks its a
orgasim or like the others said g-spot but
its bad sometimes like the blankets sheets
and all the way to the matress gets wet i
thought about asking my doctor but tooooo
imberrased. and my husabd said its like a
white color to it i agreed but it still
smells pee like!!!!!!
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MessyMay
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Posted: 06-02-08 12:41pm
yes before and after
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the_fries_guy
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Joined: 04 Jun 2008 Posts: 7 Location: Danville, Virginia, the united states of america
Posted: 06-04-08 05:15am
i know that this is a forum for women, and
i'm a guy, but, my girlfriend is too shy
to ask herself, and this pertains to her
situation, save for the fact, it's when
she masturbates.
my girlfriend has tried on multiple
occasions, to pleasure herself through
masturbation, fingering in particular..
the problem is, after a few minutes of
masturbating, when she starts
feeling...um...there's a word for it...the
sensation you have before you have an
orgasm, she gets the sudden urge to pee,
so she says. and that's pretty much the
end of any aroused mood she was in.
her and i have tried various things...i've
tried being there (on the phone, since
we're long-distance currently) and helping
keep her aroused while she masturbates,
i've tried re-assuring her and keeping her
self confidence up (not while she's
masturbating, but, in daily life) which
she is...she's tried extra fingers,
masturbating with toys, all to no
avail...the 'urge to pee' hits her no
matter what, and if she does, the mood is
gone.
sorry to intrude again, i know this is the
"women's heath" forums, and i'm a guy, but
i'm desprate, and hoping to help fix her
problem, because it's affecting her self
esteem.....she thinks there's something
wrong with her because of this very
problem.
any help is much appreciated
~the_fries_guy
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beachgenie
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Joined: 05 Jun 2008 Posts: 3
Posted: 06-05-08 21:20pm
I used to have the sensation, but because
I get a nervous bladder before sex, like
when at the Dr., my boyfriend just said "
so what if you do pee. " and thereafter I
did imagine what if I actually was? And
instead of a nervous bladder it became an
erotic bladder. Maybe because there was
some submissiveness to it, on my part.
Anyway, now some 15 yrs. later, I'm dating
a man who officially has a sort of fetish
about all this, which I had no point of
reference to, except the one I mentioned.
So I searched and got onto this site where
I too, can identify with many of these
womens experiences. I think it's just a
sensation, however that emerges during
intense sexual arousal and it's cool if
you're cool with it. I'm no expert,
really, but under the assumption that men
want, always, a little of what's off
limit. Hence a "pee fixation".
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elliejealousy
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Joined: 29 Jul 2008 Posts: 2
Ok so, Posted: 07-29-08 06:53am
Ok. I am 15 years old, and i was
masterbating and as i orgasmed, I started
spewing liquid. automatically that kind of
grossed me out and i stopped. Haha. So, Im
pretty shure I'm not urinating because it
was clear and didn't smell like uran. But
I am afraid of[as i am virgin] when i do
loose my virginity it will gross the guy
out. Is there a way to hold it in? Or does
it have to come out? Because, I noticed it
only came squirting when i pushed out.
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elliejealousy
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Joined: 29 Jul 2008 Posts: 2
Ok so, Posted: 07-29-08 06:54am
Ok. I am 15 years old, and i was
masterbating and as i orgasmed, I started
spewing liquid. automatically that kind of
grossed me out and i stopped. Haha. So, Im
pretty shure I'm not urinating because it
was clear and didn't smell like uran. But
I am afraid of[as i am virgin] when i do
loose my virginity it will gross the guy
out. Is there a way to hold it in? Or does
it have to come out? Because, I noticed it
only came squirting when i pushed out.
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taprootjld
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Posted: 07-29-08 16:04pm
i have that same problem 2....wen im havin
sex wit this one guy....im real wet n tha
bed is really wet on tha area im layin
on....n it also smells like pee...i am
really wet n its not an orgasm....cuz i
know wat that feels like....so if anyone
knows wat this is please help!!! thanx!!
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motherofhighspiritedones
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Posted: 07-29-08 17:09pm
MessyMay
wrote:
Before and after its
imberrasing mu husband likes it cuz he
thinks its a orgasim or like the others
said g-spot but its bad sometimes like the
blankets sheets and all the way to the
matress gets wet i thought about asking my
doctor but tooooo imberrased. and my
husabd said its like a white color to it i
agreed but it still smells pee
like!!!!!!
Okay don't freak out hun. If you are
ejaculating and you have a wee bit of
urine in your bladder, it will come out
along with the ejaculate...so it might
indeed smell like urine. However if you
are not coming, then you might just be
experiencing YOUR normal orgasm. Like it
was said earlier, some women lose all
function during orgasm, including bladder
function. As long as hubby likes it you
are ok lol. But if you are really
concerned ask your Dr.