hi all
back when i was 20 my frenulum (or banjo as i've always called it) suddenly gave way and was left with a small nick horizontally across my frenulum.
i am now 35 & two weeks ago, it suddenly ripped open a paper sized cut again ( no blood) on a week with NO sexual activity.
I'm in pain, it has healed, ripped, healed, ripped over and over, & for two weeks now it has left a significant scar/gap. this doesn't actually hurt too much except on the tip of my penis where the skin attaches itself to my head, its a little swollen and i can barely pull my foreskin back without wanting to scream.
i have had no problems in the past, everything has been in working order but i am reluctant going to a dr in case they push for a FULL circumcision which i am dead set against.
just short of cutting the damn thing off myself i was wondering if this is the same problem others have faced and if a frenuplasty is the way to go?