Ok I just tried on a condom for the first time in my life and I must say it was quite impossible
the frenulum pulls my glans downwards and the not-fully pulled back forskin 'blocks' the condom

i feel so bad :( I don't know what to do

Does this hurt when you are erect?

not really, when I pull the foreskin further than the glans the frenulum just pulls

i told my girlfriend about this last night, she was cool with it and said I should get that frenuloplasty done

Hey, my banjo string isnt exactly long either. So I would like to ask the guys this question (uncircumsized):

when you are fully erected, once you pull back your foreskin as far as you can w/o pain or discomfort, is there any foreskin left over that cant be pulled back due to your banjo string?

If so, how much?

I, personaly have a band of skin 0.5-1 cm benieth the rim

yeah me too, it's some rolled up foreskin that can't fo further because of the short frenulum, it's almost immidiatly under the rim

Alright, so, did yours rip or do you jsut have some phobia against it.

I'm pretty sure it will hurt and maybe rip when I penetrate

oh, plus the fact that my girlfriend is not very tall...

Last night I tryed looking for info on how far back exactly the skin should be pulled. I found this site [Dead Link] and through this link on the same site: [Dead Link] you can see pics of a retracted foreskin. Thats about exactly what mine looks like. The site talked about the buildup of excess skin in that same area to be a good thing.

Well I can do this easily:
http://www.Foreskin.Org/3z-3big.Jpg

but it doesn't go as far as:
http://www.Foreskin.Org/3z-4big.Jpg
http://www.Foreskin.Org/3z-5big.Jpg

when I try that I get something like this:
http://home.Versatel.Nl/harmen55/afb/fren1 3.Jpg

Hey breve, your links arent working. I managed to find my way to the first 3 pages however. But the last I cant find. Anyways. If you say you can get the first pic but none other than your situation seems worse then mine. Although, I can get the 2nd but the 3rd doesnt even lok erected, in addition, I would be surprised if someone could fully retract their foreskin.

I was thinking about it for a while today and I think its probible that if you 'wear it out' alot than the skin should ease up and loosten. Thats jsut my uneducated recomendation.

Hi,

i just thought id add this incase it happens to you or anyone else. Last year I was having sex with a girl and she was on top, I guess she went down a little hard at a point and my frenulum ripped. I felt a little nip but I centainly wasnt in agony as we carried on having sex.
It wasnt until afterard that we noticed there was quite a lot of blood. Which is to expected as all the blood is flowing to your penis when its erect.

Anyway, it took a couple of weeks but then I was able to have sex again and everything is fine. It doesnt look any different, the foreskin goes a little futher back now but nothing unusual.

Anyway, I dont know if that helps anyone, I just thought id mention if anyones does happen to rip, its not a serious problem although it can seem scarey

:)

Yea, it did thanks. This whole 'ripping' makes me twinge. Its liek watching papercuts.

Thanks again.

Ok thanks for the ermm 'advice' rob_uk :)

i think i'll just have to get a little surgery done then, i'm a bit scared tho and I don't look forward to the whole healing process

Make sure youre under local anithstecic, rob's story may make it sounds like nothing but I have heard it can be painful. However, the anithstetic will make all the difference in the world.

Cheers.

Ps. Good luck and if you do get it done, would you mind possibley updating this thread to tell me how it went. If it went well than I might consider it myself, thank you breve.

Well actually my dad's a doctor, so he knows people who are best at this kind of surgeries I guess

hehe it's funny you call me breve cuz that's obviously a quick nickname I picked to make this topic

i promise i'll let you know how it went, thanks for following this topic and helping out, cheers !

Hi. I'm thirteen (just old enough to use this site) and recently my frenulum snapped/ripped :shock: while I was cleaning in the bath. Long story. Basically, I felt a twang of pain and saw blood gushing from my frenulum, which was about it. :? That happened on thursday (today is saturday) and I am feeling better already. :d

when I was born; my mother wouldn't let the doctor circumsize me (there was no anesthetic). My godmother had three sons who were uncircumsized, but bled every time they had sex; so they were circumsized. My mother told me that if I wanted that, I could have the procedure done. However, I really don't want to be circumsized :cry: (too freaked out). This makes me embarassed, however, because babies get it done all the time and they can stand it :oops: .

So, I went to a website to look up my condition, and found this article about frenuloplasty . It is written by a man who had it done and says that there was no pain besides an injection. I'm thinking of having it done (in a few years) if it seems this easy. I really want to get married and have a nice relationship with my wife sexually and have children :wink: .


However, I have always told myself that if I can't have children or sex for some reason, I will become a roman catholic priest :roll: . What do you think?

^ lol

well, i'm gonna tell my parents about this in a week or 2, then we'll see where we can get an appointment with a doctor and get this over with

i just hope it doesn't need too much work after the surgery
cuz i've read a story about a guy who had to soak his frenulum in hot water 3 times a day for about a week, I don't see myself running around at college with a thermos with hot water hehe

anywayz, i'll tell you how it went in a few weeks

Hello, i'm sorry for the awful late reply, but i'm gonna see a specialist tomorrow who's gonna look if it's necessary to do a surgery

the stress !!!

To be continued

Ok, I went to the doctor, and guess what, I have frenulum breve
i made an appointment for the 4th of april

i talked with him about the surgery, and he told me they use some sort of gel instead of an injection to anaesthetize it

quite a relief if you ask me!

Ok more to follow