I am a 27 year old mother of two who has had varying medical problems for the last 8-10 years. It started with joint problems in my late teens, followed by weight gain, followed by benign thyroid nodules. After years of being told that I had hypothyroidism (even though my thyroid levels were always perfect), i'm now being told that I "could have" lupus, specifically sle. I have an elevated esr blood test, elevated d-dimer test, hair loss, severe fatigue, muscle soreness all over body but the most intense is in legs, poor circulation in my feet, and my face always appears to have a slight sunburn across my cheeks. I haven't been confirmed because I had a negative ana test. As crazy as it sounds, I was actually relieved when a doctor finally mentioned lupus, only now he hasn't "confirmed" me. I was told that "i probably have lupus but we'll have to wait for additional symptoms". That was a huge set back for me because I have been living with these problems for years with no answers. I go through boughts of depression and lethargy, and there are days when I literally feel like I don't have the energy to push the blankets down to get out of bed. Anyone with any words of encouragement, advice, or experience is welcome here. Just seeing that other people have the same issues is a big help.