Hi! Im Only 13 But I Desperatly Need Ur Help! Posted: 01-03-06 13:27pm
Well da thing is ive missed ma period, and
although I aint had sex cuple of weeks ago
I saw someone in my room den woke up wiv
da worst headache and ma pjs were on da
floor :( im rely scared cos ive been
lookin up the symptoms of pregnancy and I
seem to match! Shud I take a test????
Loz
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nichole handran
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2005 Posts: 11 Location: mpls
Re: Hi! Im Only 13 But I Desperatly Need Ur Help! Posted: 01-03-06 17:16pm
04lozzie
wrote:
well da thing is ive missed
ma period, and although I aint had sex
cuple of weeks ago I saw someone in my
room den woke up wiv da worst headache and
ma pjs were on da floor :( im rely scared
cos ive been lookin up the symptoms of
pregnancy and I seem to match! Shud I
take a test????
Loz
hi lozzie, sweetheart you need to go to
the drs. You should have gone the day you
woke up with this headache and noticed
your clothes were off. I am sooo sorry
you have to go through this. Was this a
party you were at or someone you trust?
Loz are you in a safe place? Do you have
someone to talk to? And are you close to
your mother or father, will they
understand? If not there are some clinics
that deal with teenagers who need help.
Such as a planned parenthood or many
listings in the phonebook or online.
Depending on where you live and how you
can get there. I'm so very sorry that you
have to experience this it can be very
terrifing to deal with if you need to
talk you can email me. Nicholehandrannikki@hotmail.Com
good luck hun and god bless
nikki
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wife_and_mom4life
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2005 Posts: 53 Location: Amherst VA
Re: Hi! Im Only 13 But I Desperatly Need Ur Help! Posted: 01-03-06 17:35pm
04lozzie
wrote:
well da thing is ive missed
ma period, and although I aint had sex
cuple of weeks ago I saw someone in my
room den woke up wiv da worst headache and
ma pjs were on da floor :( im rely scared
cos ive been lookin up the symptoms of
pregnancy and I seem to match! Shud I
take a test????
Loz
hey there lozzie! Where were you when all
of this happened? You saw someone in your
room and hen woke up naked with a bad
headache? Were do you live, with your
parents? I mean, how did someone get into
you room? I think that you need to talk
to your mom and dad (our an adult) and
tell them exactly what you are telling us.
If someone snuck into your room, knocked
you out and rapped you, then you need to
be examined by a doc and tell the police
what happened. It is kind of hard to
understand your slang (way of speaking) so
please forgive me if I am getting any of
this wrong. Are you saying that you are a
virgin? Never had sex? Were you bleeding
from the vaginia when you woke up? Were
you sore down there or anything? Do you
have any kind out bumbs or anything on
your head? I really do hope that you talk
with a family member or trusted adult and
get all of this straightend out. I know
you are afraid, which is why you need to
get this out in the open. If you are
pregnant, your parents should know, they
can help you. They will not be mad at
you, this is not your fault. I will be
praying for you loz! God will guide you
through this, just have faith.
God bless and good luck,
teresa
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04Lozzie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jan 2006 Posts: 3
Hi! Posted: 01-04-06 14:22pm
Hi, tanx so muhc for u replyin its such a
relief! Rite I was at ma house wiv ma mum
and dad but dey was downstairs, I jst
realised dat ma window was open! I cnt
tell any1 cos dey will go barmy! I swear!
Im gona wiat ill nxt month to se if I get
ma period if not den ill got to da drs!
Luv lozx
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wife_and_mom4life
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2005 Posts: 53 Location: Amherst VA
Posted: 01-04-06 15:49pm
Hey loz!! You should go to the doc now!!
If you don't want to tell your parents
then fine. But, go to your local health
department and get checked for any std's.
If someone knocked you out and rapped you
then you need to get checked. I'm not
trying to scare you.... I'm just scared
for you. I just hope you are not pulling
some kind of silly prank... This kind of
thing is not funny. Do you know of anyone
who you think would do this to you? You
have no idea at all who the person in your
room was? Look lozzie, you need to talk
to someone other then us about this. Like
I said before, this is not your fault,
nobody is going to be mad at you or blame
you. Are you sure that you were not just
dreaming? Some people sleep walk. Maybe
in your sleep you got out of bed took off
your clothes and opened your window...
That is possible. When I was younger my
mom told me that ateast once a week i'd
sleep walk into her room and say something
totally off the wall like "i want some
cookies for lunch today."!! Weird huh?
Well... I hope that you will take my
advice and atleast go to the health
department. If you go there, it is
totally confindential... They can't tell
your mom and dad.
God bless and good luck,
teresa
i will continue to pray for you sweetie!
Just remember to lean on the lord!
