You need to get help for your daughter asap. I can relate exactly to some of her symptoms. I started having mental problems around 12, none of my family noticed, & when I finally cried out for help, no one (including my parents) helped me. My life was complete hell from then on. I've had schizophrenia for 20 years. I'm not saying she has this, but you need to check it out asap to make sure she's ok.
Check it out & if needed get her the proper help; don't be in denial about it (a sad mistake) and do everything you can possible to help your daughter.
Hope everything works out in ya'lls favor.