Confused! What Does He Want!? Posted: 01-02-06 02:34am
Okay so I spent new years eve with my ex,
yeah bad idea, but anyways we had a talk
& we have been talking about getting
back together. I finally decided that
the guy I am with now is not really the
one for me. Last night he told me that
he had a girlfriend and it literally broke
my heart, he hasn't been with any one
since we broke up in september. And now
when I finally want to be with him he
tells me he has a gf. I started crying
and he told me that he loved me and he was
planning on breaking up with his gf if I
wanted to be with him. I want to be with
him but the guy I am with now came over
today to talk about some stuff and yeah
he's pretty upset but I really want to be
with my ex. This morning when he was
getting ready to leave I asked him what he
really wanted and he told me that he
really liked me a lot but he didn't want
to ruin a relationship..It's really
getting to me because i've realized I love
him. So, in the end he told me to talk
to my bf and let him know whats going on.
I dunno, I miss him already. When he
was leaving he told me that he loved me
but I didn't say it back at first. I
finally said it and then he gave me a kiss
and walked out the door and told me he
loved me again. So, what does that mean.
I dunno what to say to him when I call
him. Plz give me advice on what to do?!
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hellburn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2005 Posts: 59 Location: vic australia
Posted: 01-05-06 03:12am
Well I don't have a clue what he is
thinking. But my guess is he want you and
the other girl... It is very hard not to
hurt any1 when you break up with someone
for another person. Girls think it is
really easy for guys because we can't be
called sluts. But if your friends are
friends with them and you friends with
thier friend then all hell breaks loss and
your life gets turned upside down....
Anyway just wait and hope for the best bye
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RubyLei
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Dec 2005 Posts: 33 Location: UK
Posted: 01-07-06 15:10pm
If this guy truly cared for you he
wouldn't be hurting or confusing you like
this....He'd be with you...Instead of
letting him making the choice...You make
the choice either ditch him and move on
(which sounds easier than it is....But be
strong) or you give him an ultimatum....If
he wants you it'll work if not move
on....You deserve more
rue
xxxx
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Flexx
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2005 Posts: 18
Posted: 01-11-06 01:03am
rubylei
wrote:
if this guy truly cared for
you he wouldn't be hurting or confusing
you like this....He'd be with
you...Instead of letting him making the
choice...You make the choice either ditch
him and move on (which sounds easier than
it is....But be strong) or you give him an
ultimatum....If he wants you it'll work if
not move on....You deserve more
rue
xxxx
agreed.
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kb77
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Dec 2005 Posts: 100
Posted: 01-11-06 02:33am
Rubylei wrote:
if this guy truly cared for you he
wouldn't be hurting or confusing you like
this....He'd be with you...Instead of
letting him making the choice...You make
the choice either ditch him and move on
(which sounds easier than it is....But be
strong) or you give him an ultimatum....If
he wants you it'll work if not move
on....You deserve more
