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Q: Confused! What Does He Want!?
asked by: ~baby~g~ on January 2nd, 2006
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Okay so I spent new years eve with my ex, yeah bad idea, but anyways we had a talk & we have been talking about getting back together. I finally decided that the guy I am with now is not really the one for me. Last night he told me that he had a girlfriend and it literally broke my heart, he hasn't been with any one since we broke up in september. And now when I finally want to be with him he tells me he has a gf. I started crying and he told me that he loved me and he was planning on breaking up with his gf if I wanted to be with him. I want to be with him but the guy I am with now came over today to talk about some stuff and yeah he's pretty upset but I really want to be with my ex. This morning when he was getting ready to leave I asked him what he really wanted and he told me that he really liked me a lot but he didn't want to ruin a relationship..It's really getting to me because i've realized I love him. So, in the end he told me to talk to my bf and let him know whats going on. I dunno, I miss him already. When he was leaving he told me that he loved me but I didn't say it back at first. I finally said it and then he gave me a kiss and walked out the door and told me he loved me again. So, what does that mean. I dunno what to say to him when I call him. Plz give me advice on what to do?!
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hellburn
replied on January 5th, 2006
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Well I don't have a clue what he is thinking. But my guess is he want you and the other girl... It is very hard not to hurt any1 when you break up with someone for another person. Girls think it is really easy for guys because we can't be called sluts. But if your friends are friends with them and you friends with thier friend then all hell breaks loss and your life gets turned upside down....

Anyway just wait and hope for the best bye
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RubyLei
replied on January 7th, 2006
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If this guy truly cared for you he wouldn't be hurting or confusing you like this....He'd be with you...Instead of letting him making the choice...You make the choice either ditch him and move on (which sounds easier than it is....But be strong) or you give him an ultimatum....If he wants you it'll work if not move on....You deserve more

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Flexx
replied on January 11th, 2006
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rubylei wrote:
if this guy truly cared for you he wouldn't be hurting or confusing you like this....He'd be with you...Instead of letting him making the choice...You make the choice either ditch him and move on (which sounds easier than it is....But be strong) or you give him an ultimatum....If he wants you it'll work if not move on....You deserve more

rue
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agreed.
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kb77
replied on January 11th, 2006
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Rubylei wrote:
if this guy truly cared for you he wouldn't be hurting or confusing you like this....He'd be with you...Instead of letting him making the choice...You make the choice either ditch him and move on (which sounds easier than it is....But be strong) or you give him an ultimatum....If he wants you it'll work if not move on....You deserve more

rue
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i agree also!
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