Hes Bi-polar And I Need Someone to Help...?

Oh boy.


I have been with my bi polar boyfriend for just over a year.
At times he is the sweetest... Most caring loving person in the entire world. But then all of a sudden he will get into this controlling ...Obsessive im mad you listen up mood.


He isnt violent physically and I try to think hat this is just a mood swing hell coem out the other end.
But I feel soemtimes he just becomes so unaware and gets drastic.


Hell be like you know wat everytime I try and be a nice guy people take advantage of me. Or trying to say I dont listen or I dotn care or try...And if anything I have tried so hard to put up with him and help him...Its so difficult.
At around the three month mark is wen I started to realize the mood swings...At first I was like I really dont see it. But nowit is very clear. Lasst night him and I went to a club we had a good time and we didnt have ne dissagreements.
This mornign I went into my room to wake him up and we layed together for a bit laffing and talkign and then all of a sudden he was like "you know wat last nigth you pissed me off you controlled everything and im not trying nemore you take advantage of me wen im nice, and if you think you can do thatmaybe I need to put you in your place". I said hey you know wat dont treat me like dirt but hes like...Mayeb thats how you need to be treated." I dont get his logic - you disrespect me and thats wrong so from now on im going to disrespct you.


He also hadnt taken his pill , and wen I asked if maybe that had soemthing to do with his mood he was like no no thats not it.



I feel depressed and like I am in this giant hole. I love him ...So much I cant think to leave him. But I dont know how to handle his condition. Do I just stay positive or do I just listen and let it pass. Or stand up for myself more when he gets like that.
I may sound like I just completely ignorant or like I think none of this could be my fault but belive me I have been trying to work on the things he feels are bothering him...But..They never end. Its always soemthing. I feel inadequit and like no matter how hard I try things never get better.
I want to be loving but soemtimes I just get so angry when he says those things but he just doesnt see they are wrong.
Yes I know this has been a very long post but I just need advice its like im trying to make him comfortable but I am hurting all the time. I need to learn to cope and maybe give me soem tips to cmmunicate with him. I love him so much all I want to do is help....Humm thank you for any advice you could give.