Hi everyone im a new member and im so glad I fell upon this site sometimes its embarassing to ask these questions.
Im 18 and have been havin sex for the past 2 years, but I have never been this sexually happy. I had been with 2 other guys but wwith my current boyfriend it different. I feel secure and comfortable with him, and I let go. We're really open with echother so I dont feel weird lik I did with the other 2.
Okay I dont think i've never had an orgasim, because honestly I dont even know what it is. I only know what I read in the magazines and I heard that its hard for some women so I dont know. I do know that I enjoy it but I dont know if I have gotten ther yet.
Does anybody know if intese inner vaginal burning is normal durin sex. It doesnt happen right away it start after we've been at it for a while. Also it doesnt happen all the time either just somtimes. Its just noticible because he can feel it too. It doesnt hurt either one of us, but sometimes we stop to I guess let it cool down. Sounds funny I know.
I dont know if this could be a side effect from the pill, but I dont think so because it had happend before I got on it. I doubt its an std because my boyfriend and I got checkd together about 2 months ago (i know things change). Could this be a sign of an orgasim or what could it be? Its just I want some opinions to see if its bad to go get it checked hopefully not.
Thanks & happy new year
please let me know anything helps!!!
I have had it a couple times with my now husband. We have been together for 9 years this feb. We never found out what it was, and he only felt it once. I do get urinary tract infections, and because of my diabeties, sometimes get yeast over growth. Could have something to do with it on my end, but I dont know if this could be the same for you.
Not sure about the burning, but as far as reaching an orgasm, you definitely need to go for it yourself and figure out what makes you happy. You can either go solo, or try self stimulation while you are having sex. I am unable to reach orgasm by sex alone. I need to touch my clitoris in order to reach orgasm. I doubt the burning has anything to do with an orgasm. When you have one you will know it! You may be more sensitive than I and you could ask your guy to go down on you or use his fingers on you. Good luck :d
Well, im sorry my comment wasnt vaild, since u dont use condoms. The best lubricant I like is vegitable oil. Give it a try, it makes things, nice, slippery, wet, and it stays like that for a good bit. Good luck
If you've never had an orgasm, and your bf tests std-free, the burning is probably because you're not lubricated enough to have sex, or you might be having sex for too long. Lubricants are great, I prefer replens because it doesn't sting as much as the other ones. But, it never hurts to get tested for stds, since some have no symptoms, but can be damaging.
I forget the stats, but almost no women actually reach orgasm with vaginal intercourse alone. There has to be oral or manual stimulation often for many minutes (5 - 25) to reach orgasm.
Learn the same way your bf did, by masturbating. Then you can tell him what to do and where - there's no (straight) man on earth who wouldn't be extremely excited by hearing/seeing/talking about how a woman masturbates. He'll think he's died and gone to heaven, and now he has 'a mission' to do it as well or better than you can. But first, please buy yourself a vibrator - or if you have one of those handheld shower things, get in the tub and use that. Then show him what to do and definitely insist on oral sex.
When the man gives u oral eventually, make sure ur !**@! is clean. U may scare him off if it stinks.... Many men prefer it to be shaved. Shaving also helps get the job done better (ive heard, not too sure on it...Wont hurt to give it a try!)