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Q: What Should I Do?
asked by: happy_sunshine_yan on December 30th, 2005
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I've just been diagnosed clinical depression, and i'm taking remeron rd 15mg/day, a tetracyclic antidepressant (no idea what that means?)... It is supposed to help me sleep at night since I haven't been sleeping very well... But when I take it, I get super drowsy, sleeping for hours. I feel drugged to sleep every time after I take it. In the morning, even after sufficient amount of sleep, I feel really tired, I can barely drag my bottom out of my bed. This is winter break, but ends pretty soon.. If this happens when school starts again in january, I would be in trouble.. Showing up to class at 10 or later... What should I do? My parents don't know that I suffer from depression, and no i'm not about to tell any of my family members... They are of no support of me. I have no one to talk to.. My friends try to snap me out of my sadness, they don't understand. I can only talk to my doctor. Even he has realized that I was not as lively as he met me the first time... And i've seen this doctor only twice.

Should I have a talk with my teachers to let them understand my condition before they start phone calls home to my parents asking them why i'm doing so horribly in school? Should I keep this to myself? I really don't know. I don't mind ppls knowing i'm being treated for it. But it's just so hard to initiate the conversation. Any suggestions?
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sad_eyes
replied on December 31st, 2005
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Hi,

i've never taken this medication before but have taken other types of anti-depressants and yes they have made me really sleepy too. But when i'm depressed I either sleep to much or suffer from insomnia anyway, even when i'm not on anti-depressants.

If you feel that it would help you to talk to others about your problems then do so. Could you speak to a school counsellor at all? They might be able to offer you some good advice.

Do you know if there is a specific cause of your depression?
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catswold
replied on December 31st, 2005
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My suggestion would be to call or see the doctor who prescribed the meds and see if the amount can be reduced or another drug taken it its place.

Are you in college or high school? If h.S. You might have a harder time with this situation. If you are late to school, someone will need to know, probably a parent. If it's college, it does sound like a good idea to tell your teachers that you are on a new med and there's no need to tell them why unless you want to. You might have to, though, if you don't want them calling and a parent answers.

There is nothing wrong with having depression. Remember, it is just a chemical imbalance. Sure, therapy does help people with depression so it sounds like a medical problem, but therapy would help just about anyone even if they didn't have a chemical imbalance.

Hang in there and talk to the doc about the sleepiness. There are so many anti-d's out there that can help and won't make you sleepy. Often it take time to find the right treatment. Sometimes it also takes time for your body to adjust to certain aspects of a new drug.

Hint - do you take the anti-d a couple of hours before going to bed? That might help, no guarantees.

I hope everything works out (it will).
Carol
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happy_sunshine_yan
replied on December 31st, 2005
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Yes, I do take the meds before bedtime.. But still feel really dazed and drowsy in the daytime. I'm a highschool student. My meds. Can't be adjusted to a lower dose, i'm taking 15mg, half of the 30mg pills already... So I don't th ink it's possible to reduce the amount...

I don't want my parents to know, and the doctor knows about this, and he is of great support to me, and said that this issue will just be between him and i... So i'm grateful. But now, since hs teachers call home when they see something abnormal.. I guess I should be talking to them and include them in my recovery process? Cuz I have to take these meds for one year, and i've only just started.
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catswold
replied on December 31st, 2005
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I do understand very well. I never wanted my parents to know anything because they never seemed to understand and would make me feel worse. They were the biggest reason I was depressed when younger, but I didn't have the blessing of an understanding doctor as you do. Good for you.

Now that I know you are a high school student, you should talk to your teachers, but I still don't think it's necessary to tell them why (you are taking the anti-d) unless you want to.

Give the new drug a month or so to see if your body adjusts to it. I take prozac and had to go through an adjustment phase. We ended up having to reduce the dosage but after that I was fine. Don't just accept the effects of the drugs after giving your body time enough to adjust. Like I said in my previous posting, there are many, many different kinds of anti-d's. You just have to be persistent and you'll get there.

Good for you to take initiative to get help. Hang in there and I hope we all have a great new 2006 year!!!

God bless...
Carol
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