I am wondering what are some of the steps I should be taking to help me and my girlfriend. I am really confused what to do. I am nervous to tell my parents and I have no idea how they are going to take it. Also I dont know what is best for me and my girlfriends future. If we did have a child could I keep my social life ( sports , friends ). I am telling her that she should get an abortion.... But it is breaking her heart and myn also. If anyone has any tips on things that could help it would help me so much. We have been dating for a couple of years.... I really want to have it but I also want to finish my last year of high school. And I want to go to collage after. She is also a year younger. Im so confused ! Also how could our parents help us?