Ok, I am 19 and my g/f is 18. To make a long story short, my girlfriend had her rebellion years at about the age of 14..Which includes some drinking, smoking, and sex, including a one nigth stand.
Now, she is totally different now, and before I would always ask her question after question, but i've gotten much better with that.
My main concern is that I am afraid of any engagement in the future, because I will always be thinking " do I really want to marry someone who has had sex at 14, 15 and 16...?" it bothers me she would open her body up at this age so soon, and that her morals were totally messed up. Does nebody else have this problem? I just always am thinkin there's gonna be someone out there "better" in terms of how her past may be..And how I could find a virgin or something.. It's so confusing..Ne help would be great..Thanks!!