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Q: Past Hautning Possible Marriage?

asked by: TysonH on December 30th, 2005

Experienced User

Ok, I am 19 and my g/f is 18. To make a long story short, my girlfriend had her rebellion years at about the age of 14..Which includes some drinking, smoking, and sex, including a one nigth stand.
Now, she is totally different now, and before I would always ask her question after question, but i've gotten much better with that.
My main concern is that I am afraid of any engagement in the future, because I will always be thinking " do I really want to marry someone who has had sex at 14, 15 and 16...?" it bothers me she would open her body up at this age so soon, and that her morals were totally messed up. Does nebody else have this problem? I just always am thinkin there's gonna be someone out there "better" in terms of how her past may be..And how I could find a virgin or something.. It's so confusing..Ne help would be great..Thanks!!

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danthadon

replied on December 31st, 2005

Experienced User

No Worries

Buddy all I got to say is as long as you love the girl unconditionally. ,marry her no matter what her past is as long as she has her things straightened out involving her morals. We all make mistakes like me for example. I had my rebellion years at about tha same age as hers smoking maryjane and drinking, but that was tha past. Now i'm doin better than ever with my religeon. The past is nuthin but history. As long as shes changed for good and realized her wrong doings in tha past than its all good. Love her and support her cuz thats all she needs to stay strong. And yeah I also did find it disturbing to go out with a girl that let loose at such a young age, but like I said if she regrets her past, it means nothing. God gave you two eyes in the front of your head so you dont look back.

jesticle

replied on January 1st, 2006

Experienced User

Hey I had the same problem with my bf after we'd been together for a few months he lost his virginity at 13 and had his most different partners in a year when he was 15 I hated the thoughts that I had about him the same things about morals and all that I too wondered about there being better people out there but then I look around and see him sleeping next to me and realising he's here he's not sleeping with anyone else its all me now, we've been together almost 2 years and I dont have that problem anymore because for me it was my own past that made me think like that I do councelling and dont think like that anymore I say the same thing if she's not that person anymore and you do love her then you've nothing to worry about

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