Looking For Advice From Men Posted: 12-30-05 14:04pm
Guys never want to talk about how they
"feel". I love my boyfriend and I know he
loves me, but he won't talk to me. He's
soo stressed out and usually in a bad mood
because of numerous things (work, college,
bills, family, etc. Etc.) and I know that
none of it has to do with me. But should
I be upset because i'm starting to feel
like he is pushing "us" to the back of his
mind. When he's in a good mood we have
soo much fun, and we are perfect for
eachother...We're two hopelessly in love
fools...But mostly lately I feel like he's
not as interested in "us" anymore like he
used to be and he's usually in a bad
mood...But he'll never talk to me about it
- he just says that it has nothing to do
with me...Which I do believe him...But how
am I suppossed to feel about all this???
I'd love a man's perspective on this...And
any advice from women is also appreciated.
Thanks and happy new year!!!
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hellburn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2005 Posts: 59 Location: vic australia
Posted: 01-01-06 01:55am
Just tell him that your worryed bout him
cause of the stress and that you want to
help him so that you's can talk.
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czarg
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jan 2006 Posts: 68 Location: Lagos-Nigeria
It Is Okay. Posted: 01-13-06 00:49am
Hi, it is alright to feel the way you do.
That is encouraging and shows you are
sensitive. I used to feel so in my former
relationship but the best way to go about
this is not to 'bug' him with your
worries. You would do well to tell him
softly how you feel, and what his
disposition does to you. Allow him get
over his fears too gradually.
Besides, is there anything you can do to
help sort out some stress of the bills,
needs, etc? That could be soothing, you
know!
