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Q: Can Pre-cum Get Me...
asked by: babaycakes on December 29th, 2005
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I was wondering another thing, my boyfriend was telling me that pre-cum can get me pregnant also...Is that true?
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poohbear101
replied on December 29th, 2005
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Yes, it can. Which is why you shouldn't use the pull out method if you don't really want to get pregnant.
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Mommi2Bee
replied on December 29th, 2005
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Pre cum very much can get you pregnant and as poohbear said if your not trying to have kids any time soon I definatley would not trust the pull out method. If you don't wan't to drive yourself crazy worrying about this then use protection and thats not even a 100% accurate. The only way you can be absolutely positive that your not going to get pregnant is by not having sex.
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sweet4jay
replied on December 29th, 2005
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Ok, what about any of the fluids before the pre-cum??? Like what if he pulls out waaaaaay before even the pre-cum? Could that get you pregnant? Just wondering cuz my sister used this method for 5 years straight & never got pg...
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Mommi2Bee
replied on December 29th, 2005
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A guy can pre-cum right when he sticks it in.... Even if its 10 mins before he cums.
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Mommi2Bee
replied on December 29th, 2005
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And...
And you can use the pull out method for 10 yrs straight and never get pregnant, it just depends on the person and the guys little swimmers.
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sweet4jay
replied on December 29th, 2005
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Oooooooooooooook, never heard that one before!!! So, I guess my sis was just lucky then????? I don't think so........
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Mommi2Bee
replied on December 29th, 2005
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Uuummmmmm okkkkkkkkkk................... Think what you want... Why don't you look it up... Most guys can't even feel pre-cum.. So how would you know everytime for 5 years that he didn't even pre-cum..
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sweet4jay
replied on December 29th, 2005
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Cuz she said he pulled out waaaaaaaaay before he was even close. She's 35, obviously she's had sex a couple of times in her life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Mommi2Bee
replied on December 29th, 2005
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Well whatever you say.. Maybe I was exexaggerating a little when I said 10 minutes but most guys don't even feel pre cum and pre cum usually takes place as you are about to ejaculate. But whatever, your sisters 35 she can take care of herself.. If she feels shes being 100% safe by
"pulling out before he even pre cums" then so be it.... Heres something I read about pre cum though-------most men in fact do have an emission of a small amount of fluid before ejaculation. It is a clear discharge that can have a high concentration of sperm. This is called pre-ejaculatory fluid, also know as pre-ejaculation or pre-cum. This fluid is released during sexual arousal, and is general not felt by the male, so I doubt if your boyfriend would have realized. This is why the pull out method is simply not a reliable or effective form of birth control.
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fatfamily02
replied on December 29th, 2005
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I know this might be old---but it comes from medical site on the internet--i dont know where!!


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it is possible to become pregnant while engaging in sexual intercourse while fully clothed, if the man ejaculates and the semen soaks through the clothing and reach your vagina. You are at greatest risk if the clothing is thin and you rub together for a long time after he ejaculates. Regardless of whether your bodies are separated by material, clothing is not a form of birth control. Clothing does not prevent semen form entering the vagina. The only protection from pregnancy is the consistent use of some form of birth control, such as "the pill" or condoms.


If semen is ejaculated or rubbed near the vagina, there is a chance of pregnancy if some sperm find their way inside the vaginal canal.



...But cloth that is loosely woven is more easily penetrable. If you still have concerns, make sure semen does not land near the vagina regardless of whether both of you are clothed; and if that does happen, change clothes immediately and rinse yourself off thoroughly.



In practice, however, risks cannot be ruled out if he ejaculates on or near your vaginal opening. As long as neither you nor your partner has any traces of semen on your hands or other body parts used to stimulate each other, the risk of pregnancy should be small. But, say for example, the male stimulates himself, ejaculates in his hand, then proceeds to stimulate the female with his hand; there is a chance that sperm can find their way into the vagina.



so, how safe would the pull out method really be???? Right?

Hey, my daughter was successful using it (pull out method)also for about a year. But I guess it just wasnt her time to get pregnant.
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sweet4jay
replied on December 29th, 2005
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"arousal Fluid"
Yeah, that is what I was talking about...The lubrication he releases at the very beginning, when he gets aroused. I was wondering if it contains sperm that could get me pg? I have been married almost 10 years & recently went off of hormones cuz of problems with them, and I was considering using this as a form of birth control since it worked so well for my sis...Not sure what to do...???
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Mommi2Bee
replied on December 29th, 2005
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Well if you don't want to get pregnant again.. Maybe you should think about getting your tubes tied.. Thats always pretty reliable eh?
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sweet4jay
replied on December 29th, 2005
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I'm too scared to get my tubes tied. I have heard some horror stories about that!!!
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Mommi2Bee
replied on December 29th, 2005
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Yea I don't think I would be able to do that either......... Your husband can always get a vasectomy. I don't think he would be thrilled about that one though.
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sweet4jay
replied on December 29th, 2005
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Well, maybe i'll just talk to my dr about this subject...I'm considering getting an iud anyway... Hopefully pretty soon!
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Kimmeh
replied on December 31st, 2005
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sweet4jay wrote:
ok, what about any of the fluids before the pre-cum??? Like what if he pulls out waaaaaay before even the pre-cum? Could that get you pregnant? Just wondering cuz my sister used this method for 5 years straight & never got pg...


there is no fluid other then precum (when you are doing sexual activities) precum is that clear liquid that dribbles out in small and sometimes large ammounts. There is always sperm in that.
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Kimmeh
replied on December 31st, 2005
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kimmeh wrote:


there is no fluid other then precum (when you are doing sexual activities) precum is that clear liquid that dribbles out in small and sometimes large ammounts. There is always sperm in that.


oh and a guy can't tell usually when he is going to precum...It just happens.
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sweet4jay
replied on December 31st, 2005
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Oh, ok, maybe i'm just ignorant about this subject...I thought pre-cum was the clear stuff right before the ejaculation...? Like immediately before.
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EagleClaw007
replied on August 18th, 2009
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Pregnancy from fingering after touching pre-cum?
OK, now you guys got me worried. My girlfriend and I didn't have intercourse but, I was stroking myself, to try and keep it up, it was our first time and I was somewhat nervous. Stage Fright or something. Anyway, my hand obviously got in contact with some pre-cum, I then fingered her till orgasm. I didn't finger her deep, and my finger was nowhere near "wet". I am just wondering if this case would also have some potential for pregnancy, and if it was only two days ago, if there is still something that can be done to prevent it?
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