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babaycakes
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Can Pre-cum Get Me...
Posted: 12-29-05 12:04pm
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I was wondering another thing, my
boyfriend was telling me that pre-cum can
get me pregnant also...Is that true?
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poohbear101
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Posted: 12-29-05 12:44pm
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Yes, it can. Which is why you shouldn't
use the pull out method if you don't
really want to get pregnant.
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Mommi2Bee
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Posted: 12-29-05 13:19pm
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Pre cum very much can get you pregnant and
as poohbear said if your not trying to
have kids any time soon I definatley would
not trust the pull out method. If you
don't wan't to drive yourself crazy
worrying about this then use protection
and thats not even a 100% accurate. The
only way you can be absolutely positive
that your not going to get pregnant is by
not having sex.
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sweet4jay
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Posted: 12-29-05 13:22pm
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Ok, what about any of the fluids before
the pre-cum??? Like what if he pulls out
waaaaaay before even the pre-cum? Could
that get you pregnant? Just wondering
cuz my sister used this method for 5 years
straight & never got pg...
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Mommi2Bee
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Posted: 12-29-05 13:36pm
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A guy can pre-cum right when he sticks it
in.... Even if its 10 mins before he
cums.
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Mommi2Bee
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And...
Posted: 12-29-05 13:38pm
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And you can use the pull out method for 10
yrs straight and never get pregnant, it
just depends on the person and the guys
little swimmers.
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sweet4jay
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Posted: 12-29-05 13:39pm
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Oooooooooooooook, never heard that one
before!!! So, I guess my sis was just
lucky then????? I don't think so........
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Mommi2Bee
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Posted: 12-29-05 13:49pm
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Uuummmmmm okkkkkkkkkk...................
Think what you want... Why don't you look
it up... Most guys can't even feel
pre-cum.. So how would you know everytime
for 5 years that he didn't even pre-cum..
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sweet4jay
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Posted: 12-29-05 13:55pm
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Cuz she said he pulled out waaaaaaaaay
before he was even close. She's 35,
obviously she's had sex a couple of times
in her life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Mommi2Bee
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Posted: 12-29-05 14:09pm
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Well whatever you say.. Maybe I was
exexaggerating a little when I said 10
minutes but most guys don't even feel pre
cum and pre cum usually takes place as you
are about to ejaculate. But whatever,
your sisters 35 she can take care of
herself.. If she feels shes being 100%
safe by
"pulling out before he even pre cums" then
so be it.... Heres something I read about
pre cum though-------most men in fact do
have an emission of a small amount of
fluid before ejaculation. It is a clear
discharge that can have a high
concentration of sperm. This is called
pre-ejaculatory fluid, also know as
pre-ejaculation or pre-cum. This fluid is
released during sexual arousal, and is
general not felt by the male, so I doubt
if your boyfriend would have realized.
This is why the pull out method is simply
not a reliable or effective form of birth
control.
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fatfamily02
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Posted: 12-29-05 14:16pm
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I know this might be old---but it comes
from medical site on the internet--i dont
know where!!
| Quote: | it is possible to
become pregnant while engaging in sexual
intercourse while fully clothed, if the
man ejaculates and the semen soaks through
the clothing and reach your vagina. You
are at greatest risk if the clothing is
thin and you rub together for a long time
after he ejaculates. Regardless of
whether your bodies are separated by
material, clothing is not a form of birth
control. Clothing does not prevent semen
form entering the vagina. The only
protection from pregnancy is the
consistent use of some form of birth
control, such as "the pill" or condoms.
If semen is ejaculated or rubbed near the
vagina, there is a chance of pregnancy if
some sperm find their way inside the
vaginal canal.
...But cloth that is loosely woven is
more easily penetrable. If you still
have concerns, make sure semen does not
land near the vagina regardless of whether
both of you are clothed; and if that does
happen, change clothes immediately and
rinse yourself off thoroughly.
In practice, however, risks cannot be
ruled out if he ejaculates on or near your
vaginal opening. As long as neither you
nor your partner has any traces of semen
on your hands or other body parts used to
stimulate each other, the risk of
pregnancy should be small. But, say for
example, the male stimulates himself,
ejaculates in his hand, then proceeds to
stimulate the female with his hand; there
is a chance that sperm can find their way
into the vagina.
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so, how safe would the pull out method
really be???? Right?
Hey, my daughter was successful using it
(pull out method)also for about a year.
But I guess it just wasnt her time to get
pregnant.
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sweet4jay
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"arousal Fluid"
Posted: 12-29-05 14:24pm
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Yeah, that is what I was talking
about...The lubrication he releases at the
very beginning, when he gets aroused. I
was wondering if it contains sperm that
could get me pg? I have been married
almost 10 years & recently went off of
hormones cuz of problems with them, and I
was considering using this as a form of
birth control since it worked so well for
my sis...Not sure what to do...???
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Mommi2Bee
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Posted: 12-29-05 14:27pm
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Well if you don't want to get pregnant
again.. Maybe you should think about
getting your tubes tied.. Thats always
pretty reliable eh?
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sweet4jay
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Posted: 12-29-05 15:00pm
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I'm too scared to get my tubes tied. I
have heard some horror stories about
that!!!
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Mommi2Bee
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Posted: 12-29-05 15:12pm
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Yea I don't think I would be able to do
that either......... Your husband can
always get a vasectomy. I don't think he
would be thrilled about that one though.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 12-29-05 15:16pm
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Your sister was just lucky. We used
pull out for 2 years and i'm four and a
half months pregnant. And my husband
pulled wwwaaaayyyy out before he even came
close. And that was no exaggeration
about the amount of time between pre
ejaculate and ejaculation mommi2bee.
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sweet4jay
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Posted: 12-29-05 15:25pm
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Well, maybe i'll just talk to my dr about
this subject...I'm considering getting an
iud anyway... Hopefully pretty soon!
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Kimmeh
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Posted: 12-31-05 15:02pm
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| sweet4jay
wrote: | | ok, what about any of the
fluids before the pre-cum??? Like what
if he pulls out waaaaaay before even the
pre-cum? Could that get you pregnant?
Just wondering cuz my sister used this
method for 5 years straight & never
got pg... |
there is no fluid other then precum (when
you are doing sexual activities) precum is
that clear liquid that dribbles out in
small and sometimes large ammounts. There
is always sperm in that.
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Kimmeh
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Posted: 12-31-05 15:03pm
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| kimmeh
wrote: |
there is no fluid other then precum (when
you are doing sexual activities) precum is
that clear liquid that dribbles out in
small and sometimes large ammounts.
There is always sperm in
that. |
oh and a guy can't tell usually when he is
going to precum...It just happens.
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sweet4jay
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Posted: 12-31-05 17:22pm
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Oh, ok, maybe i'm just ignorant about this
subject...I thought pre-cum was the clear
stuff right before the ejaculation...?
Like immediately before.
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