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I'm a virgin but I plan on receiving oral sex in the near future and I was wondering how the "givers" can tell anything when they do it cause i've lied about not being a virgin.

So basically what should they look for to see if i'm a virgin?
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replied December 28th, 2005
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Re: How Can They Tell I'm a Virgin??
ava_adore wrote:
i'm a virgin but I plan on receiving oral sex in the near future and I was wondering how the "givers" can tell anything when they do it cause i've lied about not being a virgin.


So basically what should they look for to see if i'm a virgin?


no guy will be able to tell if you are virgin or not by looking at your vagina or by oral sex I can guarantee you. Now when you plan on loosing your virginity I recommend you not lie about it as it may or not turn into a painful (and probably bloody) expererience that you will never forget so you will need to guy to be gentle and careful.
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replied December 29th, 2005
If your hymen is not broken, that guy will be able to tell that you are a virgin. L agree with nightangel73. You should never lie about these things.
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replied December 29th, 2005
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[quote="luke_puk"]if your hymen is not broken, that guy will be able to tell that you are a virgin. [quote]


i don't think the guy will be able to tell even if the hymen is not broken unless the guy is a gynecologist. Correct me if i'm wrong people there is got to be an opening in the vagina where the blood flows from menses. I can tell that physically looking the opening of my vagina it did not changed one bit for when I lost my virginity and I did certainly had a big hymen to break judging for the amount of blood and pain it was for me.
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replied December 30th, 2005
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Im Straight, And I Can Tell.
Ok, here is how it goes. Im no guhyancologist, but I am a sex maniac and pervert... Dont hate, its the guys like me who get the job for more than 4 hrs. Ne way, basically, we cant really tell if ur a virgin by lookin at ur vagina, but, I can tell if you have had lots of sex, or at least repetitive sex in a short period of time. If you have sex alot for a longer period of time, and many times, ur vagina lips tend to hang down. If your a virgin, ur vagina will not have these "lips" as I call them. There is a way to tell if uve given oral sex before, but it not aways accurate. If your good at it, then we can guess uve done it, but if u wanna seem like a virgin (oral sex wise) try it bad, and progressivly get better. So the first time, accidently bite his slong, etc, and then just get better at it slowly. Well, I hope u all have fun. P.S, ne 1 wanna cyber, pm me, lol.
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replied December 31st, 2005
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Your hymen can break without having sex, so there's no way they'll know, but do you really want to lie about it? It's not really starting off a strong foundation for anything if you do that.
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replied January 1st, 2006
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littlemisstery wrote:
your hymen can break without having sex, so there's no way they'll know, but do you really want to lie about it? It's not really starting off a strong foundation for anything if you do that.


lol good point.
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replied February 22nd, 2010
Can they tell being a virgin or not.
Reading these above comments made me curious about this. If a woman had sex only with one partner and stops for many years, such as...say 5years. Would her vagina get tight? I mean I've heared rumours that if a woman doesn't have sex for a long time, her vagina gets tight and she can easily fake it and get away being as a virgin. Is that true?
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replied April 3rd, 2011
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yes a lot of girls fake it and to let the guy know that she is virgin so she scream and pushing and all that.... If you don't see the blood come on the first sex she is not virgin period. Before you have sex check if the lips are fresh and that she has the tight Hymen that is tight and close, and tight vagina then yes she is virgin otherwise she is not. Boys think about it its very simple bike and other activities will not be the case with the Hymen.
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replied April 3rd, 2011
When I lost my virginity there was no blood until the next morning, in my underwear. So just because the guy doesn't see any blood doesn't mean you weren't a virgin.
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replied April 3rd, 2011
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WOW Moonlight, it is not often that I can say this but this was truly a post without a single fact. All fiction.. I hope you are just trying to elicit a reaction and are not truly this ignorant.
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replied April 21st, 2012
I have had virgins, albeit a very long time ago, and I have to say two things. 1/ They tell you first, because understandably, they are apprehensive about what to expect, and want you to be very gentle. 2/ Not being a "butcher", I am always very gentle, so I have never experienced blood when "doing the deed".
I suspect that unless you're riding the local "bike", If you pound like a pornstar, you'll likely get blood, virgin or not !
(I hope this is of some help to someone)
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replied April 23rd, 2012
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Re: Can they tell being a virgin or not.
sparkling98 wrote:
Reading these above comments made me curious about this. If a woman had sex only with one partner and stops for many years, such as...say 5years. Would her vagina get tight? I mean I've heared rumours that if a woman doesn't have sex for a long time, her vagina gets tight and she can easily fake it and get away being as a virgin. Is that true?


If a woman doesn't have sex for a long time they can get quite tight, though it doesn't usually last long, but the tightness doesn't have much to do with not having sex - more to do with lifestyle, work, exercise, etc.

Some women have the endearing quality of being (if not an actual virgin) virginal with every man in their life throughout their lives...
I think that is more important and more valuable!
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replied September 22nd, 2013
My fiance's lips are hanging out and they not looking fresh too,and her breast nipples are also thick, does it means that she is not virgin?
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replied September 22nd, 2013
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Stop your nonsense. You CANNOT see if she is a virgin. There is no test for virginity. Puffy nipples and hanging or sticking out inner lips are normal on a woman, virgin or not.

Don't confuse your own preferences and likes for virginity.
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