I got with my first love from 9th grade
again this past may which who I was with
in 9th grade for almost a year. We got
together and may me not knowing that he
had his ex girlfriend pregnant, she was 4
months when we got together so I found out
and I decided to stay with him and be
there for him through that time, until
august came and I found out that he was
cheating on me with her basically trying
to be with us both at the same time. I
stayed with him thinking it was only onw
time I come to find out that he was doing
it from day one, we had let each other go
in october and then he came back to me
saying that he has changed and he wont
hurt me and well he did it again so
basiclly he was back and forth with both
of us. Well the time that we were
together since then he watned to have a
baby with me and he told me that he was
going to be twith me and not hurt me again
and that all hes trying to do is look for
a family and I was like fine. Well he did
it to me again dec 18 so since then we
have not talk. Until today I found out
that I am pregnant, I dont know what to
do, I told him and hes not denying it
(yet) but I feel like I need him like I
still wanna have a family with him
regardless of all the things that he has
done to me but I know that he is not good
for me. So I dont know what to do should
I raise this baby alone or should I try to
work things out with him? Please I need
help, advice anything
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diamondsz
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Posted: 12-28-05 19:11pm
To be honest hes not any good for you, I
would let himn only in ur life just to see
your child and to be in its life as well
as for child support. Some men just
cant seem to calm down or commit
themselves but how many times is he going
to hurt you before you actually wake up?
Dont put yourslef in the poison of an
environment because you child will need to
be loved as well and you may do better
with a guy who will treat you 50/50 and
love both you and ur unborn child. Its
your choice to make but how do you want
your child raised? What type of futur do
you want for you child?? I know its hard
but in the end it may just work out, seems
like this guy needs a wake up call how
many more woman will he get pregnant??
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