Lol you need to seriously quit trying to get pregnant.

It's so sad, you'll end up on welfare because your only 13, not even old enough to get a job or drive yet.

Grow up before you have a baby....

What the hell is this world coming to.

Shouldn't you be celebrating? I thought you wanted to get pregnant and had been trying...

Yeh it is...
Ellie what did your mum say about it?

Dont really worry about it...Take a test and if it says - then stop having sex...My first time was when I was 13...And I regret it and I was used by that guy...So yeah be careful..And you might be missing your period because you are not eating properly...Alot of things can contribute to a missed period and because you are so young that might also be a reason.
Good luck.

Stop with this "poor me" act! This is sad...... Stay in school, deliver penny savers and keep your legs closed!

If you are needing attention, there are positive ways of getting it...... Try that!

Hey I am preg and 18 and the guy I am having it with is 20 and is still to mature to have this baby and so am i. Of course I am trying to grow up, but your only 13 there is no way you can be mature enough to have a baby or be having sex. I regret having sex at 15 and am sad about the fact that my plans for life have been ruined. Dont you want to go to highschool? Go to prom, do all those things, then having sex and a baby isnt something you should be doing. Your whole life will be ruined and your baby wont be having the kind of home it really needs, so if you arnt preg be careful and make good decisions. And wrap it up before you have sex, you dont want any stds or aids, so be careful.

When I was 13 sex was the last thing on my mind lol, let alone getting pregnant & having a baby.

If this was my daughter i'd smack her straight.

I think it is nice wanting a baby at 13 (your probably not 13 any more I see this was back in 2005) I am 13 and I want a baby so bad. Dont listen to what people say its your life. In my house I cook breakfast lunch and dinner for my family, clean the whole entire house on my own and do more than anyone I have 3 jobs 1 is at a day care another is with a tailor and I own my own weekend job. I dont get paid for house work like my friends ask anyone and theyll think I'm 17 I am mature for my age and do things on my own. I can live on my own if I have to, I make money, ad my mom owns a nonprophit orginization where she gives out free clothes food and all of that stuff you may need.She has baby clother for all of ther seasons baby food cereal milk and ll of that. Then I know another program the owner is companions with my mom if you fall short on bills they pay up to like $300. If you need money they give you a certain amount. I am not saying I will count on every one to help me but If I need help I have it.

Are you serious?!?!?! Are your parents aware of your interest in having a baby so young? You're 13 and have 3 jobs....are these "under the table" jobs..like babysitting or are you employeed by a company? The Fair Labor Standards Act (U.S. Department of Labor) sets the minimum age for employment at 14. When do have time for school? You are not mature at all if you think you can handle a child and provide propper care for it. I think that it is so selfish of you to say that you can get free stuff if you need to....those organizations were not created to bail out selfish teens who purposely get pregnant....those resources are meant to help people who, by no fault of their own, can not provide for themselves.

Yes I am serious I get good grades in school. I am homeschooled and do very well for your information. And for your information I know those organizations werent made for things like that (and I do work there my mom owns it)but we do get people like that. It wasnt made for a certain group of people just people that need help with whatever they are going through. We have got teens come in needing things and we assist them with that. Yes my mother knows I want to have a baby but I am not having sex yet. She thinks it is beautiful that I want to have a baby. But my father is the problem. He wants grandchildren he just is waiting for the right guy to show up. And getting pregnant on purpose is not selfish for your information. And I do have a job well you can call it help people out and get paid for it whatever you want I do it okay. I am in 8th grade doing 9th this summer and getting good grades. And I am not saying only I can get free stuff if I need to it is for the public. We ship out packages we help others and if I need it then my mom will help me. Thank you!

You are right..people try to get pregnant all the time...though most of them are a bit older and married!!! If you get pregnant at 13 on purpose because you think "it is nice" and you acknowledge the fact that you might use charitable aid to provide for yourself and your child....then I can not think of a better term for you than SELFISH!!!! Its people like you that make our taxes so high...people like you make me less willing to donate money to charities other than the Humane Society. You are immature...you need serious counseling...and if your parents really are okay with this, then maybe they need help too!

You know what you are the one who needs help okay. If you think there is something wrong with having a baby at 13 then the hell with you. Okay first off I just said it was nice I am going to wait a few more years to have mines. What in the heck does giving charity have to do with me? call me selfish call me rude, dumb, immature, ignorant I dont care I dont know you and pray to god I never will. I have never seen you and pray to god I never will. In my religion we get married at young ages and whether the father wants to or not he has to take care of the baby and the mother. Any way he can (other than the forbidden things like drugs) now in her situation she needs to know if he is going to take care of her before she goes having babies with him. If you disagree ask me do I care.

Your right...I need help...I'm in my late 20's....married, own our own home, finacially stable, already have my masters degree, yet my husband and I are just now introducing the idea of having children. Your right...13 is a great age to have children...once again I am the one who needs help. Your right its okay to recieve help that was meant for people "in need". Your right..you do not care what I or anyone else says...I just hope that you don't not live in the US because if and when you get get pregnant it will be MY tax dollars paying for your choice. Other than what I mentioned above..your right.

Yea whatever be smart and I do live in USA there. And like I said IF YOU WAS LISTENING I am going to wait. And thanks for your tax money.

Well someone has to pay for the mistakes of others...unfortunately it happens to fall upon the laps of people like my husband and I who, because we make a good living, are expected to take care of the rest of the country...I really would not care so much but knowing that there are 13 year old girls out there trying to get pregnant...well that upsets me. Good luck in all of your future endeavours.

Thank you for your concerns but I am not getting pregnant at 13 I wish you would listen unless you are talking about ellie. I said more than once I am waiting but I do think it is nice to want to be a mother so young I am still a virgin. I am happy for you and your husband the thing that upset me was the way you came at me; so harsh. Good luck with life.

Destane I am glad you are deciding to wait... because free stuff or not babys are hard to deal with. Im 19 with a son and it is so hard and i come on here and see these girls who are trying to be in a situation i never wouldve wanted to put myself in. Its hard to get by no matter if you have free stuff or not. My son still needs diapers and food and shelter and things i cant get for free. Like i said, i am glad you are choosing to wait, Girls that get pregnant so young end up mostly living off their parents and welfare for a long time and that totally goes against what many of the women on here who had children are trying to do and that is beat the statistics. Its hard at 19 or 20 so it has to be harder younger. And like you said it might be important to your religion for a man to take care of his family, but this is the USA and men are too caught up most times on living the life they want and pushing you away when you have gotten pregnant even to the point of denying the child. Being a mother is hard and to any girl on here that is thinking about getting pregnant at 15 or younger i plead with you to wait, you have no idea what your getting yourself into. Surely there are moments of happiness, your child is the spark in your life, but at the same time its stressful and so so time consuming especially when you are alone. Good luck with your future destane and to any other girl who chooses to wait because that is really how it is meant to happen.

hi xxelliexx i heard you wanted a baby so do i do you think youll have one at such a young age


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hahahahahahah im replying to my self hahahahahahha im so going to wait im just going to plan at the minuit