Maybe you can try watching some soft core porn. I understand if you feel guilty about it, but look at it this way...You're using it in the context of a loving, committed relationship. It's understandable to not be in the mood for sex after having a baby, and I don't see anything wrong with trying some new things to rejuvenate your sex life. Sometimes you just need a little help getting in the mood :)

here's another idea if you're really uncomfortable with the idea of porn--how about some adult board games?

Thanks tasha! I will try the board games and maybe even the soft porn. Do you have any suggestions on the board games? I mean, have you tried any?

Thanks and god bless,
teresa

There's one I like a lot that you play in the tub, called bathtub love. It's a good one if you like taking baths. Another one i've tried is called strip chocolate, and that was pretty good, too. But to be honest, it's hard to judge because you don't usually get very far into the game, if you know what I mean :) you can order them from drugstore.Com, and you can read some customer reviews on the site to give yourself an idea of what you might like. Good luck, and have fun!

i hear ya sister... I am the same way latley. I don't want hubby thinking that he doesn't turn me on anymore, I just don't like it that much right now. My baby is almost 9 months old. I wish there was osmehting I could do to make myself a little hornier....

yes, we love taking baths. The only problem is, we don't have a very large tub! I will check out that site! Thanks so much. We also have a porn shop here in town that we may look into. I here it has lots of fun play toys! Lol! Thanks again tasha!


God bless,
teresa

sammy, how old are you if you don't mind my asking? I am 19... And you'd think that at this age, i'd be wanting sex all the time! Lol! Are you just getting to were you don't want to have sex or have you been that way since your baby was born? Do you have a boy or girl? I have a 5 month old little boy... Little monster is more like it! Well, it was nice of you to respond!

God bless and good luck,
teresa

hey there, I am 26 and my baby is almost nine months, a little boy named nathan. Just in the last couple of months I started getting like this. He likes it first thing in the morning as soon as we open our eyes. The first thing I want is a shower..Not sex!!!
I like it at night before going to sleep. It seems like whenever we do , do it, I hear my baby squaking in his crib, and totally takes the mood away. I can't lay there and have sex, while my baby is babbling and talking away in the room beside us.

Hey! I know what you mean about the baby thing! Just think about having the baby in the room with you! Yep, we live in a one bedroom apartment.... So when my hubby and I have sex we either have to be very quite or go into the living room. I guess that kind of dampens the mood! Lol! I used to want it first thing in the morining alos, bad not any more... I don't know what's the matter with me. I think i'm going to ask my doctor about it, if I can get the nerve to! Anyways, is your son walking yet? My little one just started to sit up all by himself about two weeks ago and he has 7 teeth already!! He is growing so so fast... I can't belive it has already been 5 months. I wanted to ask you, did your teeth get bad during pregnancy. Alot of womens do... Mine did and they hurt like crazy! Well, it was great talking with you, hope to hear from you soon!


God bless and good luck,
teresa

[quote="wife_and_mom4life"]hey! I know what you mean about the baby thing! Just think about having the baby in the room with you! Yep, we live in a one bedroom apartment.... So when my hubby and I have sex we either have to be very quite or go into the living room. I guess that kind of dampens the mood! Lol! I used to want it first thing in the morining alos, bad not any more... I don't know what's the matter with me. I think i'm going to ask my doctor about it, if I can get the nerve to! Anyways, is your son walking yet? My little one just started to sit up all by himself about two weeks ago and he has 7 teeth already!! He is growing so so fast... I can't belive it has already been 5 months. I wanted to ask you, did your teeth get bad during pregnancy. Alot of womens do... Mine did and they hurt like crazy! Well, it was great talking with you, hope to hear from you soon!



Hey....My teeth didn't get bad as in "rotten" or anything...They got really sensitive, and I got a slight case of gingivitis which cleared up fast afterwards. No, nathan is not walking he is sitting upwards though. When he wants something he lunges forward for it, and can't straight himself. He has this god aweful screach that comes out of him. When he falls and can't get up. He isn't even crawling yet. The doctor says that thats normal. They all do it at there own pace.

Have your periods got back to normal yet? My are still screwed up. So far in the last nine months, I have been thinking that I was pregnant agian 3 times because they are so messed. This month I am late again. I hope there is nothing awrong with me.

Talk to you soon...
Sam**

Hey sam!! Yep, babies do all grow at their own pace... Your little guy is going to take off before you know it. I don't think my son (ryley) is ever going to crawl because every time I put him down on his belly he throws the biggest fit and wants to be upright again! He'll never learn as long as he does that. He gets sooo mad that he can't get around on his own yet, I can't wait until he can just so he'll stop being so whiny. My periods have been alot worse. Like heavier (more clots and stuff). I just started the "mini pill" three days ago so i'm hoping that will lighten it up. You aren't on any typr of birth control. My hubby and I were using condoms at first but they kept breaking so I had to do something. I love my son to death but I never want anymore after rasing this one... It's too hard. Ryley is just going threw this cry baby stage. He fusses all the time... It's liek I can't keep him occupied! Anyways, i'm not trying to bore you so i'll stop here! Talk to you soon!

God bless and good luck,
teresa