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Q: I Don't Understand....
asked by: sweetpea5272 on December 19th, 2003
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I've liked this boy for 2 years now but nothing has ever happened becuase we live an hour away from eachother but everytime we do see eachother we are always so close like we were together. Six months ago I was hanging out with him and we were kissing when he friend told me about his girlfriend which he has neglected to tell me about. He apologized for never telling me and he just recently broke up with her. A week ago I went to see him and met his family and a lot of his friends and I spent the night with him. I lost my virginity to him but it was not his first. He told me he loved me but he doesn't want to be with me because of the relationship he just got out of and because I live so far away, but then he calls me, tells me he loves me and misses me and tells my friends and his he likes me but I don't know what to do, if I should move on or if I should still have feelings for him because I dolove him a lot and ihope he will want to be with me....I don't know what to do
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saturn24
replied on December 21st, 2003
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I would definately move on. I know that is not what you wanted to hear. If you do not want to be with someone, you do not take their virginity and tell them that you love them. I know it hurts, but move one. He lied to you before about his girlfriend (or just didn't tell you) and then he pulls this. No, move on. Don't fall for his crap.
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nikki_caro
replied on December 23rd, 2003
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Move on. He used you. And you lost it to him so thats a big thing. But you dont need someone like him. How can he not tell you about a girlfriend! He is a jerk. Once a cheater always a cheater. You deserve someone better who will not only take you for sex.
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insurancegirl
replied on December 23rd, 2003
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Definetly leave him...I'm sorry you had to have this happen to you. A man that does that is a complete loser, and you don't need him. Hopefully the right guy comes around. However, as an fyi, just make sure there is a little more than sex involved.

Good luck,

jennifer Laughing
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