i don't mean to sound insensitive here. but contraception is your responsibility too. Most men iv met past there early teen years don't like to use condoms because they seriously reduce their sensation. I'm a firm believer that contraception is both partners responsibility. but if your bf has sound reasons for not wanting to wear a condom then there is little else a male can do. There is vastectomy, but few young men should take this option because it can impede their ability to have children naturally. (reversal is not always effective.) so unfortunately, until there is a male pill, the onus for contraception falls on us ladies. The pill is a good option although if your like me it's difficult to remember to take it! it is a highly effective means of contraception when taken correctly. other options include implants which release the hormones over a period of time and are also very effective.
back to the condom issue. talk to him about it.
I learnt on the matter because my bf wouldnt wear a condom either. I asked him about it and refused to have sex with him until we had sorted contraception. In the end we had sex with condoms, and i found out first hand why he didnt like them! but at least that way i understood. which helped us work it out together.
