First--how long have you been breast feeding.?? And do you mean orgasms or contractions?????

For me---when a man stimulates my breast I have almost reached orgasm(but never actually all the way), but...... When my children nursed there is no sexual feelings at all---like my boobs are dead. I cant even imagine having that sensation while breast feeding my children----i would have to stop and immedietly go to bottle feedings.

I dont want to offend you but seriously it would feel like child molestation to me. I am sorry but that is how I feel. There is a switch in the brain that turns off for me when breast feeding. I cant understand how this could happen????

yes it is normal for some women to experience sexual stimulation from a child sucking your nipple.
For many women there is a direct nerve link between nipples and clitoris, and stimulation of nipple from strong sucking will arouse the clitoris , which can lead to sexual feelings building up to a climax.

i know what u mean and you are probably feeling your uterus contracting which happens when you breastfeed and is pretty much what happens during orgasm right? ( a contraction) so don't feel guilty or weird

I'm not a mother so dont know much.
But i guess every women gets stimulated when she/someone else/or something touches her breast.But its not a general phenomena.Though the nerves are interlinked..i think unless the pscychology develops..one doenst get 'that' feeling.Like,a women may get turned on by a man's hug..but does she so when its her bro or father or son. And you see..even if its your guy...IF YOU ARE NOT MENTALY IN THAT MOOD..u dont get turned on no matter what he does.so I FEEL IT ALL STARTS FROM THE BRAIN.
Try to think more motherly...try to feel the satisfaction of feedin the hunger of your baby...try to feel that exceptional privilege of a women..Probably then the other thoughts may disappear.

shiny dream is right that usually , its our thoughts that stimulate us, but nerve endings in nipple can trigger sexual responce in some cases apparently, even if we arent thinking about it,
i agree normally we will surpress feeling if its family , but sometimes arousal happen any way.
like i read once of lady who was raped, but she said rapist was gentle with her, and she reached her sexual climax.
she certainly didnt want that to happen, nor was she a willing partner, but the stimulation from him triggered her physical responses ,and she was unable to do anything about it . so she had an orgasm, but it did not mean she wanted that.
it just how her body responded to the stimulation, probably of her clitoris in this case.
so nipple stimulation can happen too, even if we are not desiring it .

wife tell you this...Whitbyhill...I mean this is pretty sick...Now a rapist...Lord, man...you have to be at least 64 years old if you have been married 44 years as you post...

Whitbyhill.. may be what you say has a point.
But the example of a women n rapist is pretty surprisin.How can a women ever feel her a rapist GENTLE?And if he could be gentle...why was it called RAPE?Probably he was gentle bcoz there was no enough resistance offered...bcoz the victim had(unknowingly) started feeling things rather than resisting them.

Though its a physical response that body shows for such stimulation..Yet our thoughts play a big role in bringing about that response.Exp,every afternoon u feel hungry..and if u delay ur lunch even by sometime..u start feeling hunger crapms!!But if you are upset/sad/worried about something.. day you dont feel hungry at all.Even if ur fav things are layed in front of u u dont feel the urge to eat them.Why?Simply bcoz our mind is not aligned with body in that state.The mind is occuppied with somethin else n doest care about the bodies response or needs that time. Similarly i feel even sexual desires arise only when the mind is set for that...