Ok ill start from the beigning becuase its rather complicated!

I went off the birthconrtol patch in early aug, period was late like a month but it lasted like 1 day, then I had spotting for a while , very light, some days nothing others a tiny bit, sometimes even pink, that went away end of october, so on thanks giving I had unprotected sex 3 times in a row, using the withdrawl method (pull out b4 he came) , which oviouslly is not safe, but we were in the heat of the momment, and both in the back of our mind want children, but know it be smarter to wait,but I guess at that momment in time we just didnt care!

Now a month later I still have no period ( 2 months after my last spotting) 5 months since I had a normal period!

I took at home tests , like 4 , all neg. But my friend did the same, she took 1 said neg, went to the doc, said neg, took one at home like 3-4 weeks after she took the first one, posstive.

I have been exceptionally tired lately, tummy akes at 4am, peeing alot, am I just paranoid? Has this happen to any of you? Testing neg, but you really are pregnant. Im thinkin it may be just stress cuz alls I can think of is there could be a child inside of me, and im parnoid to do anything that may hurt the baby!

I dont belive in abortion so we def would keep the baby, I think children are little miricles. Thanks for any advice you may have