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Q: 5 Months Pregnant And Need Help!
asked by: Angel_Who_Crys on December 22nd, 2005
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Im now almost 5 months pregnant and haveing sex still is uncufertable. I frist asked my dotor about it when I was 2 months and he said it would go away but it hasn't. When having sex I get all crampy and it really hurts afterwerds it feel like someone stuck a lighter up me and light it. Its really painful.

What should I do?

Has anyoneone eles had this?

What could it be?
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bossbump
replied on December 29th, 2005
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I am 22 weeks 4 days and have been experiencing pain during sex since conception usually after orgasm. Untill two weeks ago sex was a no no just wasnt up for feeling in pain. Now sex seems more comfotable I dont know why it just dis one day I get horny now at the strangest of times and places I hope sex starts getting good again hunny. You poor thing if you are worried ask your doctor or try oral until you feel comfy again having sex good luck paulax
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teach486
replied on December 30th, 2005
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During pregnancy the cervix softens due to hormones, and your labias/vulva swell due to the increased blood flow.

If he is doing deep thrusting he could be hitting your cervix, which can be painful even when not pregnant. I have noticed within myself my upper vaginal wall is also tender at times due to the pressure and stretching from the baby laying on it. Try putting a pillow, or two, under your butt during sex. This will help to give him optimal position when thrusting so that he doesn't hit your cervix.

If the pain is in the labias/vulva it could be due to swelling. In this case you can try using ice packs to help with the swelling. During sex you want to find a position where he doesn't bump, or rub, against the labias/vulva. Try sex standing up with him behind you, or doggy style.
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mlca
replied on May 30th, 2009
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What every you do, please be careful. I lost my baby at 5 months and I was also having pains during sex. Probably best not to have vaginal sex if it hurst for the baby's sake.
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girurs
replied on June 2nd, 2009
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sex after 5 month pregnant
My wife is 5 months pregnant and we have sex almost twise in a week any probles ofter and before pregnant.
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