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riku
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Strange Fetish... So Sick... Please I Need Help...
Posted: 12-22-05 18:56pm
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You guys will hate me cause I am sick. I
need help. Please talk to me and help..
Please...
I am 24 year old male (married). I have
weird fetishes and I can't have sexual
satisfaction without those strange things.
I am so attracted to menstrual blood,
vaginal discharge, saliva, sweat, pee,
spit. When my wife had her period I made
her bleed allover me... When she bleeds
heavy I drank it... I also liked her to
sit on my face and pee in my mouth. The
worse part is I like when she doesn't take
shower... I like the natural smell of
her vagina... I like the original smel
of her skin... I don't like when she
smells like soap or lotion.
Problem is she is not comfortable with
these things at all. So I didn't force
her and stopped doing these things 6
months after getting together. I can't
have sexual satisfaction unless I am doing
filthy stuff with her. I wanna spend my
life not being sick anymore. I can't
stop fantasizing about it.
Please tell me how can I be normal and
happy.
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luke_puk
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Re: Strange Fetish... So Sick... Please I Need Help...
Posted: 12-22-05 19:48pm
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Cambion
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Posted: 12-23-05 02:11am
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Some people do have some strange fetishes
- it's just the way they are. If you feel
that you don't want to continue desiring
these things in your marriage because they
make your wife uncomfortable, you can
always see a sex therapist. They will
listen to your side of the situation as
well as your wife's and perhaps you can
reach an accord.
Hey don't feel bad about having such
eccentric sexual desires. Sometimes you
can't hide who you are. Even if therapy
does not help, you can at least say you
tried. It is at that point you must sit
down and have a talk with your wife about
this situation.
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Noooo
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Posted: 12-23-05 23:30pm
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On the bright side of things, for every
insane crazed fetish, there is someone out
there from the opposite sex that shares
that fetish with you.:)
i think if you cancel the blood fetish
thingy, the rest could be workable:)
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fantasy83
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Posted: 12-24-05 00:59am
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Oh man, thats like one of the most bizzare
case i've ever heard of..Sorry for being
skeptical man!
Anyway, I seriously think I cant offer you
any advice. Or any other member of this
board.
This is way beyond normal
u need to see a therapist man
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jensmith
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Posted: 12-24-05 03:13am
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Start with a psychiatrist, make sure it a
psychaitrist not a psychologist, ones a
doctor one is not. They can tell you how
to handle this. Take your wife with you.
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jensmith
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Posted: 12-24-05 03:46am
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Did a little research, and you are not
alone. Your fetish is defined as a
paraphilia in the psychological community.
And it can be treated, but you have to go
in and take your wife she can give the
doctor, theripist or what ever information
that can help in treating you.
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PinkieLee
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Posted: 12-30-05 09:16am
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That's not entirely correct. "paraphilia"
is the umbrella term given to any sexual
deviation which is considered abnormal, or
which may prevent or hinder one's ability
to receive reciprocal love.
You'll find a list of names for specific
fetishes at the following url:
http://en.Wikipedia.Org/
wiki/paraphilia
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catonia
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Posted: 01-05-08 15:35pm
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riku,I can almost understand how you
feel.I have some very weird fetishes as
well.The trouble is,it confuses me cos i'm
a girl and i used to think i was too young
for them as i developed one of the desires
at 12 (and i thought it was impossible)I'm
now 15 and i bet i could name at least 3
of mine so far.they're just in my mind,but
i know they are always there,even though i
don't take part in anything i think.I
sometimes get upset and frustrated and
think "why can't i just be normal?".
riku,i can't really say because my 'odd'
interests are very different from yours.I
hope i get mine sorted before i get
married though.
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Flurries in the air
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Posted: 01-05-08 16:07pm
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thats sick.....get professional help
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catonia
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Posted: 01-05-08 16:22pm
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My interests don't involve blood or
anything like riku's.Mine are a lot more
complicated.
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 01-05-08 16:24pm
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I wouldn't say its sick. I'd just say its
different. Everyone likes different
things. It just seems sick to us because
its not the expressed norm here.
I recommend therapy like everyone else
does, but not because its sick. I
recommend it only because its tearing
apart the relationship of you and your
wife, so the two of you need to go and
work something out to fix it.
Although not many people on this forum
have a problem like yours, that does not
mean you are alone. There are plenty of
people with different fetishes.
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 01-05-08 16:30pm
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On a side note, I don't see why people
think this is so sick. I personally don't
have a fetish for any of these things, but
I don't see a problem with it. It's just
normal bodily functions. Its things that
are NATURAL. Sweat, menstrual blood,
natural smell of the human being...things
that we were attracted to before things
like soap came along. What's so wrong
with being attracted to normal bodily
functions and scents?
It's not like he's fantasizing about
slitting her throat or something.
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catonia
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Posted: 01-05-08 16:47pm
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There's a lot of males out there with the
same interests.
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Flurries in the air
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Posted: 01-05-08 17:08pm
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i dont think sweat and like smell is
sick.
but drinking menstrual blood and pee
sounds very disgusting.
I am sure some other people have this
fetish but to me its disturbing
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-05-08 17:16pm
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wow
drinking menstral blood
you need to get to a dr asap
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lele25
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Posted: 01-05-08 23:00pm
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That's deffinately not normal. You need to
see a doc because this could be very
unhealthy.
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impulser23
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Posted: 01-06-08 01:16am
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ok everyone, stop bashing on him just
because he has a more erotic fetish then
most of us. A fetish is a fetish. It will
always remain in ur mind. I like legs and
feet. I find them hot. Apparently he just
menestral blood hot and pee, and sweat. My
only conern is that this fetish might
affect ur relationship. Best thing to do
is just keep the thought in the back of ur
head or try and find new fetishes. In my
opinion a sex therapist would be able to
do anything because in the end it is up to
you if u want to give up this fetish or
not. If u want a sex therapist everyone in
this forum in one way or another is a sex
therapist. And so far alot of people are
telling you to stop with this fetish. Well
my answer is going to be that it is up to
you. Are you willing to harm your
relationship with this fetish. I know if
my girlfriend didnt want me sucking on her
leg and feet during sex i would stop and
never do it again.
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catonia
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Posted: 01-06-08 11:39am
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My fetishes are probably just as strange
as his though,so i don't judge him.
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young Girl
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Posted: 01-06-08 16:53pm
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| impulser23
wrote: | | ok everyone, stop bashing on
him just because he has a more erotic
fetish then most of us. A fetish is a
fetish. It will always remain in ur mind.
I like legs and feet. I find them hot.
Apparently he just menestral blood hot and
pee, and sweat. My only conern is that
this fetish might affect ur relationship.
Best thing to do is just keep the thought
in the back of ur head or try and find new
fetishes. In my opinion a sex therapist
would be able to do anything because in
the end it is up to you if u want to give
up this fetish or not. If u want a sex
therapist everyone in this forum in one
way or another is a sex therapist. And so
far alot of people are telling you to stop
with this fetish. Well my answer is going
to be that it is up to you. Are you
willing to harm your relationship with
this fetish. I know if my girlfriend didnt
want me sucking on her leg and feet during
sex i would stop and never do it
again. |
no ones bashing him for likeing it
but DRINKING MENSTRAL BLOOD is NOT HEALTHy
and can cause serious problems
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