My Lover Is Coming From Europe And He Is Married With a Kid. Posted: 12-21-05 18:51pm
I have been having an affair with this man
for a year he moved to europe with his
family and now he is coming here and I
don't know what to do he has been pushing
me away the last few months and I am sick
of being the hurt one. I want to hurt
but I also love and miss him and he wrote
me he will see me sometimes on saturday
but he has to spend time with his wife
that thought makes me want to puke.
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Kittykatus
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Oct 2005 Posts: 89 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: 12-24-05 17:16pm
I'm sorry hunni, but at the end of the
day, did you know he was tied at the
beginning of your relationship? If so,
then you have to admit that this would
have no doubt happen, either way.
Love does creep up in places where the
situation isn't always either the best
possible way or convient, or comfortable.
I understand that you love this person
hunni, but you have to understand that he
has another life tucked away, and you
tucked up in the saturday schedule. Do
you really just want to be visited
saturday?
I certainly wouldn't want to be shoved
into a weekend time; if he loved you as
much as you did he'd leave his family, but
that, as far as I understand, won't
happen.
You've been hurt; as you just said
yourself. Don't hurt yourself anymore and
stay with this man. It will hurt breaking
away, agreed. But it will destroy you if
you stay. Find a man that will be with
you 7 days a week not one, and that will
love you back as much as you do.
