Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 18 Location: California
Let Her Go? Or Keep Tryin.... Posted: 12-21-05 17:34pm
After a year of being broken up with my ex
girlfriend, I finally realized I love her.
While we were broken up, I was seeing
someone else, and so was she. The
relationship I had with my new girlfriend
was good, but I always felt like something
wasnt right or was missing. One night I
met up with my ex, and we ended up having
sex. It felt like that piece I was
missing was her, and everything felt so
right that night, and I knew I was in love
with her. So I brokup with the girl I was
with, so I could pursue things with my ex.
She did the same with her boyfriend. We
both wanted to be with each other again
and I felt complete. Until the second
time we had sex. Right after, she started
crying, and said that it didnt feel right
between us, and that although she wants to
be with me, the feeling wasnt the same for
her anymore. I felt like my heart was
litterally ripped out of my chest. I dont
know what to do anymore. We still talk on
the phone but only as friends. It kills
me whenever I talk to her, but when im not
talking to her, she's all I can think
about. I have never felt this way in my
22 years of life, and I dont know if I
should keep talking to her, or if I should
let her go. I keep telling myself that
there is no hope for me and her, but my
heart just wont let me let go. It's been
about two weeks since this happened, and I
havent talked about how I still feel.
Should I just tell her I am still in love
with her orjust brace myself for a couple
of months of deppression with out her? Do
you think she can get that feeling back?
Is it time to move on?? My love for her
is killing me.
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kev000
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 18 Location: California
Re: Let Her Go? Or Keep Tryin.... Posted: 12-21-05 19:18pm
Aaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
Posted: 12-21-05 22:22pm
I feel like you ! If u truly love her
keep trying dont give up im not.. Good
luck
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kev000
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 18 Location: California
Posted: 12-22-05 13:44pm
kitty2luv
wrote:
i feel like you ! If u
truly love her keep trying dont give up im
not.. Good
luck
thanks, but whenever I talk to her about
it, it feels like im pushing her away more
and more.... I guess the saying is tru, "
if it's true love, and you let it go, it
will come back to you..." I hope...
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~baby~g~
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2005 Posts: 221 Location: Ohio
Posted: 12-23-05 14:59pm
Keep trying sweetie, seriously it will all
be worth it in the end!! Don't bother her
all the time but every once in awhile
wouldn't hurt. You could always write her
a letter to explain your feelings. My ex
is wanting to get back with me but it's
going to take a little while for me to
trust him again, so he is doing everything
he can to get me back. Ya know it does
get annoying sometimes but I know he loves
me & I know I still have feelings for
him. When the time is right we will get
back together. Keep that in your head!
Hope this helped, pm me if you need
someone to talk to!
<33
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
Posted: 12-24-05 02:11am
Seems like alot of ppl have the same
problem , im stoping all my bs with my ex
ima leave him alone n let him come to me
I wouldnt waiste my time on someone whom I
loved and they didnt love me back the
same, a relationship takes 2 people and
you cant have one unless the other person
feels the same way.
It never works that way, ever.
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kev000
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 18 Location: California
Posted: 12-30-05 18:18pm
Yea, ur prolly rite.... I've accepted
that it's over between me and her... I
jus have to find a way to move on.....
Without her..
I love you natalie.......
There, thats the last time i'll say that.
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yronc101
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2006 Posts: 1 Location: phil.
Let Her Go Posted: 01-06-06 13:22pm
Let her go, just go on with your life have
plenty of sex to someone....Its a nice
treatment... If she comes back then thats
good news...
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RubyLei
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Dec 2005 Posts: 33 Location: UK
Posted: 01-11-06 08:10am
You hav to let her go...I've been on the
other side...Me and my ex were together
and everything was right but I grew to
realise I wasnt in love and things were
not right...I know I broke his heart badly
but what he did to help was distance
himself from me...We hardly speak anymore
and although that hurt me cause I still
cared bout him so much as a friend I knew
it was best for him...Now he is getting on
with his life and is so much more
happier...Sometimes you have to be cruel
to yourself to be kind if you know what I
mean being friends with someone you want
is like rubbing salt in wounds
rue
xxxx
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RubyLei
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Dec 2005 Posts: 33 Location: UK
Posted: 01-11-06 08:11am
But your right pulling her close will make
her push away...I did even though I didnt
want to hurt him...Its like a reflex
action or something
