Not all babies are blessings for all women. A rape victim will not call a pregnancy a blessing. A woman on birth control trying to avoid pregnancy will not always call a pregnancy a blessing. Sorry, but I am truly happy with my life the way it is.

I count every day that I don't have children as a blessing. Next point?

That is for sure, all children and babies are not a godsend just look at some of them. I count my blessings that women do have a choice in abortion and voting and that women can still be treated like women, in some cases.

you missed the point completely. You seem to value money most in your life. I just think that is sad as it truly is the root of all evil.

you also find joy out of the actual procedure of abortion, ripping and sucking of human flesh. Next point?

.H.A.H....Yea, you would!

I place value on many things in life, and my ability to not live off the government through medicaid, welfare, food stamps ect.. Without a job or career I could not afford the basic necessities in life!

I value many things in life. I value my relationship with my fiance', and the fact that my soon to be mother in law likes me and is happy that I am part of the family. I feel blessed(and value) that I found someone is so wonderful and caring, who doesn't hit me, and we do not fight. I value my nursing career, because I enjoy helping the elderly and women so very much. (i have worked in nursing homes too.) I value other peoples health and well being, it makes me feel humbled that I helped to create a healthier living situation for someone. Here I am healthy and successful, why should I not share this? I donate to charities, and help women out. It is the most amazing experience to help someone else out, to see a person feel relieved that they can recieve help.

I value so much in life, much more than you know.

that was weak, heh. And not insulting in the least. You did mean it to be insulting, right?

umm, no. I meant what I wrote. "yea, you would". Are you dumb?

i think your a snob for voicing that your "proud" that you don't need goverment assistance. Did it ever occur to you that some people, men and woman, at some point in their lives, for whatever reason, may need to turn to the govt for help. I myself have never done so, but if I had to, I sure as hell would, with no regrets. I have paid taxes for many years, I am entitled if I need help for whatever the reason may be.

I'm glad you value your life, you should. But you shouldn't "disvalue" others, like the 3 children you killed. I'm glad you respect the elderly, too bad you don't respect he young. Oh yea....In fact, you kill them. You do not have to tell me how it feels to help a person, I love to do so, I do every chance I get, and wish I could do more. But you never helped your own children now did you? I guess you pick and choose, whatever is convenient to you and your wallet right?

why did you feel the need to attack me (and make up something completely inane and psychotic to go with it)? Just because I disagree with your views, why do you make insane and ridiculous comments like that? You sure don't do your cause any favours with idiotic statements and personal attacks like that. You just sound like an obsessive, neurotic and possible psychotic edit

Good point poopoopoo!

she would? Why? Come on, I can hear the sneering in your voice when you say that, the dripping scarcasm. No one says that phrase nicely.

***i*** sound psychotic?! (lol) what drugs are you on? What you just described is you to a "t" my dear. So you can quit trying to project your exact traits on me to make your hateful self feel better. I didn't attack you, I stated the truth about you. I don't have a "cause". I have a moral belief that abortion is wrong, and any sane human being would agree.

I wont even comment on this topic.........

why? You always have good things to say and state so please do so.

Merry christmas tanya. :o)

Because it is very difficult for me.... See before I had a child I couldnt understand why everyone would make comments like I never want a child or walfare this and walefare that and other things... But what people fail to realize is a child is a gift .. A gift to you from someone wether it is god or whomever.. And about the money thing.. See there will never be a time where you have enough money.. No one is ever prepared enough for anything and that is something that I really do believe and even if you try to prepare yourself you are never fully prepared for what life itself has in store for you.. And see I also hate when someone always talks about walefare and etc.. See everyone in life I mean everyone there wont be one sole on earth who is not going to need help one day in life.. Wether it is foodstamps to make sure you dont starve, or medicaid to make sure you can get meds. When you are sick, or job training to get yourself back on track. Or housing to keep you from being homeless.. See people fail to realize the the root to all evilness is money.. Money cause proverty. Money causes hunger and money causes greediness.. But one thing that money cant buy is love......... Love that you have for yoursel or the love that you will have for your child.. That hopefully one day will love you back unconditionally.. And see when people take a life a life is taken from them.. Maybe not now maybe not tomorrow but someones life has been taken.. Give a life take a life... Take a life and I shall take take 3. That is why you here that saying death always comes in 3's... I believe a women should have a choice about her body, but I also believe that a child has the right to live and make choices for themselves one day as well... So that is why I didnt want to comment on this topic.. But I hope everyone understands.. Btw. I will do whatever it takes to be a mom to my children and if that means living on walefare or pleading for whatever than that is what I will do. If that means working 1 2 or 3 jobs then that is what I will do also.. So on that note.. Sorry so long

I am not at all a snob..You say don't wanna get pregnant?" use birth control. Well what about women who have 5 kids and are on welfare ect.. And cannot support the ones they have? Is that responsibilty? I am not against helping women who need help, and men too. I understand that at some point in our lives we all may need help, but we try our best to be self sufficient. Having more children than you know you can care for reasonably is not responsible.

you made a personal attack on me which was entirely unwarranted, and completely false. You ascribed some pretty strantge ideas to me -- which I never had, but clearly is something you think about. What right do you have to come on here and make claims about how I feel about things? You did not describe me in any way, but gave a pretty good indication about the sorts of things you think about. I won't speculate as to why you are obsessing about ripping fetuses out of wombs, etc., but if those are the things that you are thinking about, don't try to transfer them to other people. The idea of abortion does not give me "joy". You are the one who has these mental images -- that is something for you to deal with, but don't try to claim that it is me who has these thoughts.

I am pro-choice. If you cannot deal with the idea that not everyone wants children, or wants to be pregnant, that is your problem. But your sick little claims, your personal attacks, and your inability to have a civil discussion are seriously disturbed.