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pee-wee

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Posted: 12-29-05 15:28pm


"and in the end times, man will lust for man, and woman will lust for woman." it's a sign of the end of times. The apocolypse, people! Help others to see the light!

sweet4jay

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Posted: 12-29-05 15:29pm


You're right...The bible & science do not agree, and they never will! God will eventually get sick of this earth & the way people are living & he will destroy it once again by raining fire & brimstone down from heaven. It might pay to pull out the bible & read up on a few of these subjects...The bible is our absolute, not some psycology book!

pee-wee

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Posted: 12-29-05 15:30pm


Amen!!!!!!

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Posted: 12-29-05 19:32pm

perfectdiamond19 wrote:

nightangel73 wrote:

homosexuality is a learned behavior, not something genetic.

as I stated befor I will send you the information in a psychology book and like I said befor, in order for them to print it they have to first prove it. You know what this really is it is a bunch of ignorant people who are too worried about others, they are american people free to be and do what they choose, just as you are. If you dont like it close your eyes, they should not have to hide who they are, who cares if a man loves a man or a woman loves a woman. It is not learned and your right it is not genetic, however it happens in the womb to an unborn fetus due to stress on the mother. So in all just let these people who choose to be with the same sex live their lives just as you do. Stop judgeing they do not judge you and you are still no better than they are.

i am not judging anyone. I only said homosexuality is not genetic and I don't believe that of the stress of unborn because if it were for that the entire humanity will be gay cause we all live under stress. My brother (may he rest in peace) was gay so ask me about it.

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Posted: 12-29-05 21:19pm

pee-wee wrote:

instead of reading a psychology book, read the bible. Science and the bible don't go together.

I do read the bible, however as a college student I have to read psychology. And I still think you are judgeing

pee-wee

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Posted: 12-29-05 21:27pm


Perfectdiamond, i'm not judging. I'm telling you what the bible says. He's judging. If you are mad about the word of god, take it up with him!

perfectdiamond19

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Posted: 12-29-05 21:40pm

pee-wee wrote:

perfectdiamond, i'm not judging. I'm telling you what the bible says. He's judging. If you are mad about the word of god, take it up with him!

I am not mad about the word of god, I know that god will come back some day, I may not read the bible as much as I should, however I do know the bible. You know I trust the bible but I cant beleave that our god would cast someone to hell for being gay. I am not gay so why does it matter to me? Because I have been taught not to judge others, I have been taught that god does not want us to judge others. I have more to say but I have to go breast feed my newborn son, I will reply the rest later, he is getting fussy.

pee-wee

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Posted: 12-29-05 22:08pm


For the last time, I am not judging others. I am only telling you what the bible says. I'm sorry that you don't believe that god says that homosexuality is wrong, but he does. P.S. Congratulations on your newborn baby.

pee-wee

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Posted: 12-29-05 22:34pm


Lev. 18:22 you shall no lie with a male as one lies with a female, it is an abomination. 1cor.6:9-10 do you know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of god? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolators, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 10nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the kingdom of god. Just because someone is a homosexual does not mean that we cannot love him (or her) or pray for him (or her.) it is a sin, and like any other sin, it needs to be dealt with in the only way possible. It needs to be laid at the cross, repented of, and never done again.

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Posted: 12-30-05 05:40am

pee-wee wrote:

for the last time, I am not judging others. I am only telling you what the bible says. I'm sorry that you don't believe that god says that homosexuality is wrong, but he does.

P.S.

Congratulations on your newborn baby.

I never said that I did not believe it I said that I did not think it was in there I have never found it and I said that if you could tell me where to find it so that I could read it for myself. I cant say yes it is or no its not because I am not sure, I have just never read it or heard it preached at church, so if you tell me where to read it I can and then I myself would be less ignorant to the fact. Right? No one has told me where it is so that I can read it myself. But if you can tell me where to read it I would love to. However it still will not change my veiws. It may be worng but its there lifes and there business and its not my place to tell them that they are wrong for how they choose to live. And it sounds to me and to everyone else like you where judgeing, you have become a little nicer, but go back and read some of the other things you wrote, I had no intentions of writing in this forum until I read what you wrote to that little girl. Suppose she read that and felt like she was terrible or worthless and she say killed herself because someone said someting so mean to her when all she wanted was some help not to be put down and told that god did not approve of her life style. Now I do believe that yes some very few people may chose to follow the crowd and may chose to be gay , however 95% I believe to already be that way no choice to who they are attracted , now yes they could refuse to except that they are gay but then they would be betraying theirselves. These are my veiws, I do not agree ith it but they are not wrong for chosing this lifestyle it is their life I will not tell them they are wrong, I will not cast them away

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Posted: 12-30-05 06:23am


To be true to oneself is to be true to the pure nature of ourself. And our true nature comes from god. (our spirit is from .God and knows everything). All of our true nature's are looking for that higher power from wence we came. And all the trying to fill the void with other things just leaves us longing for the light, that much more. Our true nature wants to be holy, wants to be whole, wants to be well, wants to find .God, wants to be free. Their true nature does not want to lay with their own sex. Their true nature just wants to be loved and accepted--and only the love--pure love from .God, can fill that. Our spirit is the part of us that is like .God, and if we tap into it, by pulling away from the fleshly things we can hear and see .God in us and in the world. We can know what he wants to do for us, and what he wants to accomplish with our lives. And about the little warrior trying to help you not to fall in the depths of satan's lair--this is what I say about that: some are sent to pull them out of the fire, some are sent to lovingly guide them, others are sent to pull them in, in other ways. I know this women of .God, one of my best friends, and she would scare the pants off of you. .God starts speaking to her, and out it comes. And she is bold, she is almost forceful, and the dangerous warning prophecy's she proclaims by him, is just amazing. It changes a man right before your eyes. While I am the gentle guide, bold in my words also, but more gentle about it. I have proclaimed prophecy with danger too, but much more gentle most of the times. It falls right outta my mouth too, but just softer. But my husband even thinks I am too rough, too bold, so he needs someone even more gentle to receive the words of .God from. For he takes me like I am being mean--there is not a mean bone in my body. I am just bolder than he can take sometimes. God bless us all--and may all of us find our way to the truth before we die. Amen

pee-wee

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Posted: 12-30-05 06:38am


I am sorry you can't even believe the truth when it's put right in front of you. I am sorry you can't believe that I am not judging others. I am not sorry for believing god's word. I will never be sorry for that.

pee-wee

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Posted: 12-30-05 06:56am


I will no longer be staying where god's word is not welcomed by everyone. To those who believe-be strong. To those who don't-listen with faith. God bless us all!!! :d :!:

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Posted: 12-30-05 07:17am

pee-wee wrote:

i will no longer be staying where god's word is not welcomed by everyone.

pewee that is why you need to stay!! Jesus liked to spend time with the sinners, he did not ran away but tried to tell them the .Truth

perfectdiamond19

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Posted: 12-30-05 08:50am

pee-wee wrote:

i am sorry you can't even believe the truth when it's put right in front of you. I am sorry you can't believe that I am not judging others.

I am not sorry for believing god's word. I will never be sorry for that.

it has not been put right in frount of me only one person was able to give me a quote from the bible that made me consider that you were right as for you you have not gave me any idea where to find it in the bible, I will nit trust your word you are not a walking bible, I will trust what I read for myself. I did not say you should be sorry for believe gods word. I would never want to make someone feel that way I am a strong believer in gods word, you turned this forum in to a arguement about god, I trust love and have faith in god. God has been there for me a whole lot, he has givin me so many things to be proud of, he has givin me a wonderful husband and son and a wonderful life I could not ask for more. So this is not about my faith in god I have plenty, this is about this young girl that you were so hateful too. I am not interested in chating anymore either, however if anyone would like to tell me where to read I would love to read bout homosexuality in the bible, I am not being sarcastic I am being serious, I do not want to be ignorant to the word of god,
fatfamily02 I really like want you put, it makes sense. Take care of your self

perfectdiamond19

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Posted: 12-30-05 08:50am

pee-wee wrote:

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ignorence isnt bliss Posted: 05-09-08 14:10pm


to all of you who have negative views on homosexuality.i cant help or try to concinve you of who we are.but i do have a question.do you choose to heterosexual? i think not.well its the same way.and just because ur belief says its wrong does it mean u never do anything wrong.i can garuntee u all christians have comitted sins thruout their life.this is how this young lady thinks she is.so what gives u the right to judge her.only god can judge her according to ur faith right? to the young girl.if that is who u are it is who u are.DONT EVER LET OTHER PEOPLE TELL U RIGHT FROM WRONG GOOD FROM BAD.when it comes to sexuality its the way u are and u cant help that.dont be ashaimed.rejoice.for differences is what makes the world so beautiful.if ur bisexual then ur bisexual and u cant change that.if you not then hurray too.either way u are who u are and dont ever let someone put u down bc of ur prefferences.this is america .freedom is what we thrive on.and u my young lady are free to be who u are.so dont listen to ignorent peoples point of views.they dont matter.like momma always said.the people who care dont matter.the people who matter dont care.live ur life how ever the hell u want!

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Posted: 05-13-08 14:53pm


You say that people don't have to be Christians but "should" believe in "god"...my question is which god? There are MANY gods of many religions which openly accept bi-sexuality as a part of human nature. People can still believe in the word of "god" and accept bi-sexuality.

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Posted: 05-13-08 15:41pm


Hey, can we got a moderator up in here and move parts of this topic out? Well rather, 80% of the topic out. Since half the first page, this thread ceased to help this young lady, the original poster out. Learn to be respectful and argue/debate about your beliefs in the DEBATE forum, this thread, much less this forum, was not meant to discuss your religious beliefs concerning homosexuality, it was made to support females in relation to sexual health. In an attempt to get back to the original topic, though I don't know if you wanted to hear the opinions of a male, considering that you posted it here, my opinion is, you should tell him. I think it is fair to both you and him, he shouldn't be kept in the dark if you actually care about him. This way, if things go well, it would take a load off your mind and like him all the more for it, if things go wrong, you know it was for the best if he couldn't accept you for who you are. Think about the consequences if you keep him in the dark. For instance, lets see, if I was a young male who is still developing and probably going through the stereotypical teen life of turmoil and confusion and I find out my girlfriend someday ditches me for another girl, can you imagine what a terrible blow to my self esteem that would be? It is unlikely hormonal ragings of a 16 year old girl, I don't believe I know of any hormones that causes you to feel attraction for the same sex. There is discussion about genetics having a factor in that the sequence of DNA proteins can influence a certain behavior, but if your body produced more testosterone and/or less estrogen, you'd probably be experiencing more male-like physical qualities beforehand anyway. Good luck with any choice you make.

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Posted: 06-28-08 00:32am


its ok most guys like the fact they can have 2 instead of one when i was younger i had sexual encounters with other females and i cried thinking i was a lesbian and that no guy's would want me but as i got older i realized alot of men out their now like that they can have 2 women if you really like her maybe you should talk to your bf about being in a relationship of 3. your still young dont worry about it