I have problems with relating to my parents during christmas holiday when i'm staying with them. Especially my mother can be a difficult person to be with because of the way she talks to people, she gets angry easily and gets stressed and it makes me really tired and uptight, like i'm in a defensive situation. I got into an argument with my motehr yeterday and she made me cry. I know everytime I go home for holidays it will happen again and she won't change. She says its me who have a problem. She says I make her irritated and why won't I be nicer?