Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Okay Ladies Here's the Deal Posted: 12-20-05 17:37pm
I won't tolerate any more posts that are
derogatory towards "fatfamily02".
Here is why
i believe that she believe's she is
pregnant.
I personally don't as many of you do to.
However this is not reason to be rude to
her.
I am agnostic and religion is something I
do not believe in.
Whatever this lady's circumstances she
needs help and support right now not
ridicule.
Fatfamily02 if you really do think you are
pregnant honey please get yourself and you
child medical attention as soon as
possible - the fact you are denying
yourself medical assistance is one reason
I do not believe you are truly pregnant.
I know how badly you want a child, I
understand what you believe in but either
way you do need medical attention.
If you are pregnant you need to be
planning the birth as far in advance as
possible incase something should go
wrong.
If you are not pregnant then you need
medical assistance for whatever condition
is causing these pregnancy like
symptoms.
I think you are in denial of not being
able to have a child - that is ok it takes
a long time if ever to accept such
things.
I also think that if a doctor scans you
and tells you that you are not pregnant
that you will not believe them - which is
why you wont seek medical attention.
I'm not sure what will happen when you are
due.
Will you suprise everyone and have a baby?
Will you be one very disappointed lady?
Do you have a supportive family
structure?
If there is no baby, what will happen?
Will it affect you mentally? Would it
cause depression? Would it make you
suicidal? Would you be a risk to another
pregnant woman by trying to take her child
from her body to have as your own?
These questions scare me.
Now, I am willing to be here for you and
support you through whatever your
circumstances maybe so long as you are
willing to help yourself also.
If you are indeed confirmed pregnant I
will be here for you, however if things
aren't as you suspect I will still be here
for you.
I understand the desire to have a child
only too well.
Desire can induce "chemical pregnancy"
where the body really truly believes it is
pregnant - even to the point that hcg *is*
produced giving a postive pregnancy
test!
Please please get the help you need for
whatever your situation maybe.
Feel free to pm me - I can pm you back
with my email address if you need.
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judirika
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Nov 2005 Posts: 5 Location: Florida
Posted: 01-06-06 22:55pm
I don't know what happened to the original
posts that had pics from fatfamily02. I
was concerned because she said she was 26
weeks, that far along she definitely needs
to see a doctor. If she is pregnant, I
don't see any other way for her to deliver
other than a c-section. I don't think
just abdominal muscles can deliver the
baby properly. I would think any fetus
over 26-28 weeks has a high rate of
survival these days so it makes sense to
get to a doctor/hospital. I would take
my chances at that rather than rupture or
have the body reabsorb the fetus.
I would also like to be one of the
witnesses to a wonderful miracle.
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 01-07-06 14:58pm
Very well put kia_breizzze. I just hope
that she is getting the help that she
needs and feels that she can come back
when she is ready, I pm'd her but that is
about all I can do.
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jane30
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 20 Location: west mids
Here Here Posted: 01-07-06 16:50pm
I agree with you ladies. We are honest
people on here with true feelings and it
hurts me to think that any1 can make a
joke of the way we feel
