You are more than likely not pregnant. It's best to use protection though.

You are protected after using birth control for 7 days continuously.(everyday) you are protected, but as an added measure condoms are highly effective at giving an extra peace of mind.

I'm also cramping....Not really bad...I usually cramp before my period...My period is due in a week...Is this a bad sign?

Ok well my period came...I also took two tests though because I wasnt sure if it was just implantation bleeding. But my period was really heavy though which is normal for me but it only lasted for about 4 days. The two tests I took came back negative and I took them in the morning. I know this sounds crazy but I think I might still be having symptoms...Such as tender breasts...Headaches and I have had to use the bathroom alot. I dont know what to think at this point....Does anybody have an opinion?

I highly doubt you are pregnant. Your symptoms are probably due to your period. I would consider using protection from now on. Good luck

The headaches, short period, tender breasts and all that are all side effects of the pill. And just because you're on the pill doesnt mean you should be having sex... And also def still use condoms.. You dont want any stds..

Ok well ...Yeah I really doubt i'm pregnant..I've taken 2 early response tests and 2 clear blue tests and all 4 came out negative. I'm waiting for my period to come this week. But I always have to use the bathroom...Like crazy frequent urination! It's really odd...It;s like this weird "orgasmic" pressure I guess you could say. I dont know what it is...I dont have an std because this was the first time both of us have had sex and hes not infected. Everyone tells me its stress....Does anybody have an opinion? Is this common after the first time you have sex? Just wondering......

Most of the stuff is probably just from starting b./c and losing ur virginity


good luck though

Chill out your not pregnant. First off atfer 7 days (if you started the sunday after your period) then your completely protected. And if he was only in you for about 10 seconds then that wasnt enough time for him to cum or even pre cum so your fine. I used to freak out just like you about this stuff id go out and buy pregnancy tests all the time thinking I was pregnant. My tip of the day set an alarm on your phone that goes off at the same time everyday that'll remind you to take your pill everyday at the same time and then the worrying will stop. After all that worrying in the beginning I dont even give it a second thought anymore. And my period comes on the same day every month to confirm. Lots of love.

The pill can do some weird stuff to your body. Some women will experience no side effects, while others will think they're pregnant because they feel every last damn side effect. When I was on birth control, the first 2 weeks into the pills I gained 6 pounds, my breasts grew noticeably, and I felt nautious in the morning. It will play some tricks with your cycle too - might make your period come earlier, later, or not at all. It could make your period longer, shorter, heavier, or lighter.

I think you're just fine and that you're just stressing out. Try to relax, and definitely invest in some condoms and spermicide if you're going to be sexually active. Protect yourself as much as possible if you want to take that step in your relationship so you won't freak yourself out again.



i get that "orgasmic" pressure as well when I need to use the bathroom. I have no idea why it happens, but i'm not complaining xd.

Thanks so much for for your comments. They helped alot! And yeah i'm not pregnant cause my period came on time this month and its heavy like normal...So i'm all good! :-) haha no way am I going to have sex again before marriage...I dont think I could go through this again!

You need to cut that out.... U arent pregnant I dont think ur pregnant and u have nothing to be freaking out about. Im sorry if I sound rude with what I say but im kinda tierd of people doing really stupid things and then freaking out cause they might be pregnant. If you dont want a baby there are ways to prevent it. Get on bc and wear a condom.

Hahahahaha, I know whats going on, the exact same stuff happened to me and I was freaking out. (the 'orgasmic' peeing especially) I went to my doctor, and I found out I had a bladder infection. Its nothing bad, but you might wanna go see ur doc and get some meds or it prolly just get worse. :)

Hahahahaha, I know whats going on, the exact same stuff happened to me and I was freaking out. (the 'orgasmic' peeing especially) I went to my doctor, and I found out I had a bladder infection. Its nothing bad, but you might wanna go see ur doc and get some meds or it prolly just get worse. :)

i seriously doubt that ur pregnat. I mean u were on birth control... It probably would of bean good to use the rubber though.

Yeah I went to the doctor and the gyno...They did a urinalysis and everything came back normal...And both doctors said that its not anything serious...So I dont know what it was...Stress maybe...But its getting better ...Its practically almost gone

Ok well...The orgasmic pressure and peeing thing hasnt stopped...Its been over a month. As I said before they did a urinary analysis and everything came back normal. I also went to the gyno and she checked to see if anything was pushing on my bladder and it wasnt...So does anybody have any idea what this could be? Are there infections that they cant tell you have from a urinary analysis? I bled alot after having sex...Is that a problem? Do you think its from birth control? Any opinions would be great...I have no idea whats going on with my body! Please help...

And I also forgot to mention that it's not an std bc it was the both time we have had sex and hes not having any problems...Also there is no burning...Itching..Pain whatsoever

Somebody please help......I'm freaking out