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Q: I Need Your Help And Suggestion People About Fingering

asked by: zEdwin on December 19th, 2003

New User

Please help me.........Me and my girlfriend had an agreement before that we won't have sex until marriage because we are afraid of pregnancy...But we do oral stuff and handjobs, fingering and that is all. This happened on dec 5th...I first did oral with my girl friend then after that she gave me a handjob, before ejaculating I always ready a tissues in my hand for it not to spill out....Then I put the tissues in my penis when I was about to ejaculate ...After the event I saw that my right hand had some semen and I wipe it off with the tissue of semen....Then we went to the bathroom and I throwed the tissue at the trash.....After that event I don't remember if I washed my hands or not but my girlfriend always washes her hand.....Then I went to brush my teeth then use the towel after that, then went to drink a glass of water and plugged the dvd player to the tv because it was not set......After that we got hot again.....I gave her oral again then I fingered her a little and then I realize of what happen if ever washed my hands or not, then I rushed to the bathroom to wash my hands properly then continue on what I was doing.....Right now I am really scared if I got her pregnant or not .....She has a irregular period, her period cycle last 2 months ago was october 4 then on november 13. Maybe its because she has a goiter problem that is under medication for the past few months....I am freaking out right now I don't know what to do her period hasn't come yet ....I tried surfing the net for days and have not found a case of women get pregnant of fingering, but some said that there is a possibility......Im really confused

Replies(27)

saturn24

replied on December 19th, 2003

Experienced User

Unless you came on your hand and imediately put it into your girlfriend, I would really not worry. Sperm usually dies off very quickly after coming out. ( I couldn't think of any other way to say it) the chances are very slim.
But just to let you know something else about the whole fingering thing. You should have washed your hands before getting hot again. Women can get all kinds of infections from just the slightest amount of bacteria. Just to let you know.

insurancegirl

replied on December 19th, 2003

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zEdwin

replied on December 19th, 2003

New User

Thank you for replying insurancegirl and saturn24, you really made my day Rolling Eyes

..........But right now I am praying that she gets her period the bad thing here is that she has an almost irregular cycle....Maybe its because of her goiter which is found out months ago and she is under medication for treatment for her goiter.... Confused

jezzica04

replied on December 19th, 2003

New User

Yea I agree it was too long to get her pregnant. Sperm usually die within a minute or less so don't worry. I guarantee that shes not pregnant at all.

nikki_caro

replied on December 19th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

Yeah your fine. Thats way too long for you to have your sperm live to get her pregnant.

zEdwin

replied on December 19th, 2003

New User

Thank you for all the reply Smile

.........Just to give all the details.....The event where I brushed my teeth etc.... Took around 15-25 minutes, and also the way I fingered her I didn't go all the way in because I know it hurts for her part and she is still a virgin, only rubbed it a few times then realizing it, majority of what I had done was oral sex to her........Hope she could have her period Crying or Very sad

nikki_caro

replied on December 19th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

She will, dont stress about it. Dont have her stress either, because then it will be late. Good luck

insurancegirl

replied on December 19th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

zEdwin

replied on December 19th, 2003

New User

Actually she doesn't know anything about this......Its just me who is stressed out and worried.......2 days after the incident she had a whitish fluid coming out of her vagina...I think this is vaginal discharge., this happened to her I think when I gave her oral before also....Then the other day she told me when she tried to pee she had a little cramp maybe trying to urinate by force then the other also her back has a little pain and told me that the remote control of the tv was at her back while she was sleeping till waking up., right now her back is okay and no complains about cramping...This things made my mind worrried and am panicking the whole time....Thank you for all the replies and supports that you are giving me

nikki_caro

replied on December 19th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

Discharge is normal. But things will be fine. Just dont think about it. Think about other things and her period will come. They are always late. I know im always about a week to two weeks late. Its just how they are. You should have no problem since her period is already irregular.

glitter8370

replied on December 19th, 2003

Experienced User

U Guys..

Hey guys r all saying sperm dies right after ejaculation... Not true sperm can live up to 5 hours... I wouldnt worry though.. U touched alot of things after doing this.. So I doubt ur gf will get pregnant

saturn24

replied on December 19th, 2003

Experienced User

Well if you want to get that technical, you are wrong. They can live up to 72 hours. But what we are saying is since his hand came into contact with a lot of other things and it is not like he came on his hand and put it all up into her, then the sperm would die quickly.

nikki_caro

replied on December 19th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

But wouldnt it dry up after a few hours? I mean lets say he came on a couch or something (example) and about 3 hours later, is should dry up right? Like all flaky? Im just asking so I know, im not saying your wrong or anything! Just curious!

zEdwin

replied on December 21st, 2003

New User

Hi, im back again and am still waiting Confused

.........And still can't get it out of my mind, just want to ask if many people got pregnant because of this kind of cases Confused

insurancegirl

replied on December 22nd, 2003

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zEdwin

replied on December 22nd, 2003

New User

Thank you again for replying insurance girl, thanks for giving me hope Embarassed

saturn24

replied on December 23rd, 2003

Experienced User

Nikki, you are right about the drying out part. Once they dry out they are dead. They live up to 72 hours if you take an actual sperm sample and cover it and keep it at room temperature. I only stated that on here because one of the posts wanted to get technical, so I got technical... Lol.

nikki_caro

replied on December 23rd, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

Oh ok! Lol thanks! Thats what I thought. Like once its all dried up its dead! Lol thanks again!!!

angelica buono

replied on December 24th, 2003

New User

The chances are like less than slim, but if she is late and you are anxious about it, just get a home test. Even though in your case pregnancy is super unlikely, it would maybe make you feel better to see a physical negative result

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