I have a big problem. I am falling for a friends girlfriend, that part of it the big problem is that she likes me aswel. See we been talking for the last 4 months just as friends and we get along so well. And then she was fighting with her boyfriend (my friend) and I was tyring to be a good friend to her and tell her things would work out. But then she told me that she talks about me to her mum. And the she would love to end up with a guy like me.That when I started to see how much I liked her and then the other night we started this game where we would try to guess what we say to other about each other. And I found out that she likes me. When I tryed to get her to guess she started a new game. We woulg say what we mean, no holding back, no regrets. So I told her and since she told me that everytime she sees me she just wants to hold me down and kiss me. I have not problems with that but I don't want my friend to get hurt. Me and her are mental for each other.
Wow, sounds similar to what happened to me. The guy I was with a few months ago was well I dunno but anyways my best friend started talking to him as 'friends'. She started liking him but of course she wouldn't tell me that because I loved him. Well, she started telling him lies about me and me lies about him & finally I just got so sick & tired of it that I told my best friend to f*c* off & stayed with my bf, that lasted a few days & we talked again. The guy and I broke up, he only talked to me a few times a month & bam him & her are talking. Ya know i'm not dumb lol I figured out she was talking to him a few days ago at my house & the next evening and I heard her say she loved him. I was pissed so I threw our whole friendship away and decided to talk to this guy myself so I did. He promised me he wasn't with her & he wouldn't talk to her anymore because he still loved me. Do I believe that? I dunno but I know he hasn't talked to her for a week or so now.
Anyways, back to you. I would seriously think about what you're doing before you loose a friend and a girl you have a lot of feelings for. Think what is more worth it. Your friend or a girl that is your friends girlfriend. I know you have to be in a tough situation. Talk to the girl and if you 2 decide you really want to be together then go to the guy & explain the situation to him. Just remember, he's going to get his heart broken.
Yeah already talked about it to the girl and she feels the same towards me, but I haven't to my friend yet it really hard. I going to wait a day or to because there breaking up they been having trouble for about a month (not because of me) just not working between them. I think I will wait a few weeks after that before I tell him wats going on. Then if he cool with it I see if I can get the girl. If he not cool with it I don't no wat to do. Realy like the girl, but don't want to lose my friend.
Yeah she dumped him about a week ago. And we desided to get together on the 31st (her birthday) that gives him a month to work his !**@! out. He can't be that heart broken cause he had a girl on the side that we just found out about.
Yeah he not very popular with meny poeple at the moment.
I have observed that such affairs don't last long. I was there too. A friend of mine was in a relationship back then when we were in the university. His gf came into town and found out he was dating someone else so she was pissed. In the course of me trying to mend fences,she fell for me and call it a crush, we kissed.
Dat was d farthest we ever went. Years later now, we both knew that came up cuz there was tension.
Few of such flings may pass the test but most don't basically bcuz of your reputation at stake before yr friend and the viewing crowd from the distance. I'd say it might not be worth the stress afterall.
Well I would rather try and find out if there is something or not then just say sorry it mite not work out before anything even happens. Wheres the fun in that. We both no that it not gonna last for ever. But it is always fun to have someone special in your life. I now I want be having kids with her but we can have funwhile it lasts.