Hi. I'm new here so i'll just quickly tell you whats going on. I'm 18, my bf is 24. I have been dating him for 2yrs. Last year he got a new job, doing shift work. He alternates between days and nights and works 12hr shifts.
I just started university this year, i'm not living far from him, about the same distance as when I was at home. Lately i've been getting really annoyed with him and his work. I don't want to because he has a great job and makes really good money because of the shift premiums and nights/weekend/holiday premiums. He just bought a farm, so he's paying for his morgage and stuff too. He gets lots of holidays, but he saves them for when he goes away to cattle sales. It just feels like i'm always playing second fiddle to his work. He's always so tired and when I do see him he's so tired! I don't really know if theres a question in here....But if there is I guess it would be should I tell him that I feel like this? Like I don't get the attention I deserve? I love him to death and his job is great, but its just like we're missing something because he works christmas, xmas eve, new years, his birthday, my birthday, our anniversary..Its just not the same celebrating the say after/before...I don't know...I just wanted to vent...Now I feel better =)


i know that this post probably makes nooo sense...But =d