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Q: I'm Afraid to Have Sex Again

asked by: munky23 on December 18th, 2005

Experienced User

So i've had sex about 4 times. The first two times hurt really bad. I was sore a day afterwards. The third time didn't hurt on the outside or when he went in but it hurt whenever he went really deep.
When he goes deep theres an intense feeling inbetween pleasure and pain and I don't know what to make of it.
However, we had sex again after the third time and it hurt really bad. I'm am extremely sore like I was after the first time. I thought the pain would be gone by now.
Is that normal to go in and out of pain?(all the sex took place within a week, it wasn't like I waited a while)
when he goes deep will it hurt the first time?

Will I get used to sex?

Ahhh
thanks

Last edited by munky23 on December 18th, 2005 05:04 PM; edited 1 time in total

Replies(4)

poohbear101

replied on December 18th, 2005

Experienced User

If sex hurts it could be because you're not really turned on enough. If you find that you're not all that wet try using some lube so he can get in easier. If you're uncomfortable while he's really deep he could be hitting your cervix. This happens more if you're in missionary. Maybe try a different position and see what happens.

munky23

replied on December 18th, 2005

Experienced User

I was completely turned on and wet for sex.
I never thought he could hit my cervix.
But if he doesn't go deep I don't feel much of anything.

Can condoms cause pain too?

princessdiana7586

replied on December 19th, 2005

New User

Condoms can definitly cause pain. Even if i'm wet condoms are just really uncomfortable to me (and I have an irrational fear of the condom falling off inside me, lol) so sex with a condom is in no way as good as sex without a condom. My boyfriend and I found that the trojans that are ribbed with lubricant (the gold box! Lol) are most comfortable...But we rarely use a condom...Even though we definitly don't want kids...We should, but my bc seems to be doing it's job just fine.

munky23

replied on December 19th, 2005

Experienced User

Thanks for the tip.
I don't want to use condoms but my doctor said I can't start my birth control until after my next period.
So we are stuck using them.

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