Joined: 17 Dec 2005 Posts: 19 Location: Jackson, MI
Please Help I Hate Sex, It Always Hurts! :( Posted: 12-17-05 20:57pm
Ok so I first started having sex about 2
years ago. For about the first year or
so I had constant yeast infections and
urinary tract infections. That finally
cleared up for the most part, but sex
always hurts. The doctor gave me
estrogen cream to insert for awhile and
maybe once sex didn't feel painful, but it
still bothered me. It just feels
uncomfortable. I've been tested for
std's 2-3 times and that's all negative.
I'm only have sex with one person through
all of this. Sometimes it feels like
pins and needles, ususally it just feels
bad. We use lubricant. I dunno what to
do. It's really causing problems though
b/c my bf is getting tired of me never
wanting sex. I really want a normal sex
life. I just want to be able to do it
without pain or discomfort. I don't even
care that much about orgasm. I just want
to be able to do it. Please someone
help. My doctors are both male and
neither seem to know what they are talking
about!!!
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perfectdiamond19
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 115 Location: cedartown
Re: Please Help I Hate Sex, It Always Hurts! :( Posted: 12-17-05 21:06pm
holidaycheer01
wrote:
ok so I first started having
sex about 2 years ago. For about the
first year or so I had constant yeast
infections and urinary tract infections.
That finally cleared up for the most
part, but sex always hurts. The doctor
gave me estrogen cream to insert for
awhile and maybe once sex didn't feel
painful, but it still bothered me. It
just feels uncomfortable. I've been
tested for std's 2-3 times and that's all
negative. I'm only have sex with one
person through all of this. Sometimes
it feels like pins and needles, ususally
it just feels bad. We use lubricant.
I dunno what to do. It's really causing
problems though b/c my bf is getting tired
of me never wanting sex. I really want
a normal sex life. I just want to be
able to do it without pain or discomfort.
I don't even care that much about
orgasm. I just want to be able to do
it. Please someone help. My doctors
are both male and neither seem to know
what they are talking
about!!!
about 2 years ago I was on depo and it
did something to my body and I could not
get turned on like I did not get wet ya
know, anyhow I hated sex it hurt so bad
and I kept infections also, I am not sure
if you are on any kind of birthcontrol ,
but if you are , that could be the
problem. If you are not, you still may
need to see about finding a woman doctor,
someone who may understand you better.
When I had my problem I still had sex
because I wanted to make my bf happy, and
it made me hurt so bad and my insides were
swollen really bad he could barly fit
insie of me, but now after I stoppped
taking depo I have a great sex life. Good
luck hope you can work it out
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holidaycheer01
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Dec 2005 Posts: 19 Location: Jackson, MI
Posted: 12-17-05 21:08pm
I was on the pill but I quit hoping it
would help me. Ive been off it for about
2 months now. Im also taking anti
depressants though and now im weaning
myself off that to see if that'll help
too. How long did it take after you got
the shot out of your system to get my sex
drive back??
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perfectdiamond19
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 115 Location: cedartown
Posted: 12-17-05 21:13pm
It took a couple of months and then
everything was goood again, the anti
depressants could be a big problem, but if
you need them, its better to be healthy
and not depress instead of not taking your
medicine, make sure your doctor feels it
ok not to take it.
