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Q: Wanting Another Baby Against Husbands Will

asked by: stevesgirl2604 on December 17th, 2005

New User

Hey all...I need some advice....My husband and I have been having the "baby battle" lately....We have a 3 month old right now. My husband is currently deployed to iraq. So we have been talking about having another baby. He wants 3 kids but says he wants to wait 5 years to have our next so he can go to college, but I desperately want another one...How can I convince him to cum in me if im not on birth control? I really would love another baby and it makes me so sad im not going to get my way without being off birth control and having him ejaculate inside me. What should I do?

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Malory

replied on December 26th, 2005

Experienced User

Sorry, I think your husband is right.

If he goes to college, he can get a better job after and make more money, and then you will be better able to give a child a good life.

You don't bring a human being into the world just because you want one.

You say you want a baby now. When the baby is a couple of years old and acting up and throwing tantrums, are you going to decide then that you don't want it?

The baby you have now is only three months old. You don't know what it's like to raise one child yet, and you want to have a second one already?

Briony_S1980

replied on January 26th, 2006

New User

I assume you love your three month old baby. An infant is so demanding of you and they need your full attention for that first couple of years. If you devote yourself to this little one first then think about another one when s/he doesn't need you quite so much you might find hubby changes his mind sooner than you think. If I know anything about men it's that they don't respond to nags or pressure so let the point die so he can think he came up with the idea. But for now, concentrate on giving all that love to your little one ok?

Brie

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